been dating a guy since October, on average once a week...things are great when we are together...he's not a big phone guy so the fact we don't talk often on phone doesn't really bother me Because when we are together it's all about me. told me he would be swamped with work Sunday for a week...haven't heard from him at all except in response to a text I sent him (my text was playful not confrontational about not talking to him in almost a week)...his text back was funny and sweet and he said he's just really swamped with work and had three more days of work to go. I said OK no prob good luck gimme a call if you want tomorrow (Saturday) he texted back that he would and told me to have a great nite...but now it's Monday no word yet...he did say he was working through Monday. Should I be panicking yet or should I wait til tomorrow (Tuesday)? do guys when they are really busy tend to focus on the problem at hand? it's also possible he is a little freaked out Because things have taken a turn for the more serious the past couple of dates...but again I'm not sure what's going on here. And I don't want to overreact. He has no idea I'm upset at all...I don't want to scare him off lol. but again, he may just be purposely fading away for all I know...
If he hasn't called in a week, is that his way of dumping me?
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