Luckily, a lot of the places an ex and I would go to don't exist any more. But, they were places that weren't super special to start off with.
But, I wouldn't imagine trying to bring a girl to the same places the ex and I would go to. If I did, it would be because it was an important part of my life outside of who I dated. I could see some day going to my college, and showing my future girlfriend or wife some of the places I used to hang out at.
I suppose to some guys, most places aren't singularly special to the relationship, like a song, a movie, etc. I used to hang out at this or that restaurant, or go to this bar... and the now ex girlfriend isn't really integral to the guy. So, if the guy wants to show you an old place he used to hang out at, I would think it's more that he might want to show you a little bit of his past, or he wants to make some good memories with you there, or he wants to show you a cool place he's been to. Not that... "oh, my ex and I totally made out in this theater!"
There's a cool old theater; I'd kind of want to show a future girlfriend, and maybe if I have kids, I'd want to show them the place, if it still exists. It has special memories for me. Yes, my girlfriend and I went to a movie there. But... I a lot of great memories come from being there, usually without the ex.
Are you seriously asking this question? So you're saying guys are suppose to stop going to the places that they love or like to because they broke up with their ex? They probably went to those places before they even MET her (the ex). It shouldn't be a forbidden place that they can't go to anymore because of their ex.
I think some of the reasons why guys take their new SO to the same places they took their ex:
1) They like it. They probably go there often.
2) It's a great place to bring their new SO for dinner or whatever the occasion may be.
3) It's to impress the girl. It has worked before so it'll probably work again.
4) They feel comfortable at that place.
5) Those are the only good places they know probably.
As long as he doesn't make a big deal of it, or just doesn't really mention it at all (I don't know why it would matter so much that he'd want to tell me), I don't care if my guy takes me places he's gone with an ex. There are only so many places you can go. And even if a guy has brought many other girls there, I only care about the fact that I'm the one who's there at that particular time. Past girls don't really bother me much if at all. You can have a nice time with many different people in a certain place. Just because they have some memories with someone else there wouldn't make me want to be there any less if it's somewhere we can enjoy being together.
i don't understand this question.
if I LIKE a place and I like a person, why wouldn't I want to go there with them.
if I like more than one person in my lifetime, then its likely I would go to the same place, more than once, with different people,
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I think that its depends. I am single for one month. So, I found out that my ex started to date with his ex from before. Now he started to take her only to those romantic places that I have shown him. Even more. For ex a waterfall. I found out that he brubgs her to the same stone to take picturs. There are several beautiful places and Stones there to take a pucture. This is not the best or worst. So why to take her only there? The same about a couple other places. Only to those spesial small place on the beach, not other places on the same beach. I found out it because his ex that now is not ex anymore, started to place puctures in facebook that is possible to take only from those small places, Stines etc. Does it a lack of fantasi or he compares us? Anyway this is weird and disrespectful to her and me. So I think that every case should be sees in context.
If I'm just going out with a girl for a first date or something, then I won't cause that'd be weird.
But if I'm actually in a well established relationship, then I would if I had reasons other missing an ex for wanting to go. I don't like the idea of keeping a list of spots that I won't take a girl to because I previously took someone else to them.
why woman complain so much it's not like your paying or he's taking you to mc'donalds you know what I'm pissed off by woman next girl I'm taking out were going straight to mickeys d's. and if she don't like it she ain't getting a kid's meal toy. That's right bitches I'm be cheap.
Because we like it and you should too.
They are places that I like and feel comfortable at. Would I buy a new car for you just because my ex and I made out on the seats?
Better yet, because I asked you out and I'm paying. Capeche?
Because that is where we like to go..no matter who we are with?
Don't think to hard about this now...
experience, comfort
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