What Girls Look for in Guys

[sherbearee]

Sorry about the false advertising, but it's nearly impossible to write a generalized take on something so subjective... So instead of trying to convince you that one must be precisely so and so in order to be deemed attractive, here are the qualities that matter the most to me:

1. A minimum of 99% identical genetic makeup

I'm sorry to all the cats and hedgehogs. I still love you all, and I'm really not trying to discriminate... but I'm just not interested in you that way.

On that note, it's nice having someone whom I can pester, rant, and share bad puns with. We don't have to have the same interests, but we can't hate each other either. At least not too much.

2. A beating heart

As lovely as Bella and Edward's love story was, I'd prefer a guy with blood in his veins...

As well as a heart, too. This is one case where I will admit that bigger is better. Unless your heart is really swelling due to myocarditis... in which case please, please go see a doctor ASAP.

But seriously, a kind heart is a must.

3. A functioning brain

No hate to Patrick, but I just can't imagine myself with someone who is perpetually zoned out, stoned, or hammered.

That's not asking for too much, is it? And I did say perpetually... I mean, if it's New Year's Eve, I'd likely join you.

As a wise one once said:

" It may be stupid, but it's also dumb!" - Patrick Star

4. A hearty appetite

Seriously though, if you ask me to make you a sandwich, I'd expect you to at least try it. Even if I forget to toast the bread.

Jokes aside, I really appreciate open-mindedness. I generally like trying new and wacky things, keeping options open, and mixing things up. It'd be bummy if your tunnel had only room for your vision... and in that case, I'll just quietly hop off here.

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To sum it all up:

People are going to say "if only it was that easy..." because obviously everyone has their own set of desired qualities in a friend/SO. These are just the fundamentals of mine - feel free to share yours.

Also, if anyone has tips to draw less crudely on paint... much appreciated :D

[Anonymous]

The main things I look for in a guy, is dedication to me. I don't want him to think of being with any other girl but me, I don't want him to have thoughts of being with someone else when he is with me, and to be 100% dedicated. (Can you tell I have been cheated on) but I think 9/10 guy's break up with their girlfriend because the next best thing comes along, or they hook up with the next best thing, to see which girl they would want to be with more. They need to be attractive, established, and not a player. A guy who takes care of you when you are sick, never believes you have had enough to eat, and think's you are pretty in pajamas.

[alfonsosloan45]

HAHAHA. women logic= think's you are pretty in pajamas but he has to look good.

[GreatnessPersonified]

What women should look for:
a man with a job, and loves his mamma.
done.

[sherbearee]

Hey that sums it up :D

[lePoivre]

That last one is something I can definitely agree with. I'll try almost any sort of food and I like to be adventerous with what I eat so I would love to have my partner join me. I mean a little picky is okay; my boyfriend has this thing against pork and cilantro/ coriander, but those things are easy enough to avoid or substitute with something else. If you absolutely refuse to eat anything other than craft Mac and cheese or spaghetti and meatballs though, it's not going to work out.

[sherbearee]

Yeaah! It not even food, things in general!
And man i like coriander :P

[Octavius]

Wrong wrong wrong. It's been said time and time again that women want only one thing

Hairy hands. They're irresistible...

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[sherbearee]

oh...
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[Octavius]

It's ok, I forgive you.

[ginnyweasley]

I can't stop laughing at these guys saying that girls want a guy with money, good looks, and high social status. Because I usually look for a pulse in guys.

[Sjeggy]

that's because admitting that you're ugly is a hard thing to do ;)

[ginnyweasley]

And look kids a grade A asshat! They are a rare exhibit so enjoy this one in a life time museum experience! @Sjeggy

[Girly1710]

Oh my gosh of course don't listen to him. Ginny, we love you!

[ginnyweasley]

Thank you @Girly1710 of course I won't listen to him because if high school taught me anything its to not care what people say. Apparently he said he was kidding but I doub it.

[sherbearee]

Pulse sounds good XD

[Anonymous]

Women want money and looks. to say anything different is just a lie. but men are also to blame because a lot of them nowadays are super thirsty , they overrate women and they act so desperate, that they do nothing but boost women's egos and standards to astronomical levels. There's a guy at my job who has no problem getting a woman, but you wouldn't know that because he acts like he just got out of jail or something they way he pursues and stalks them. Guys like him boost women's egos and standards to the stratosphere

[Sjeggy]

lol and it's not the other way around?

[Opinion Owner]

@Sjeggy What is?

[fun-weird-guy]

My girlfriend makes more money that I do and I am not the skinny or muscular defined model type either

[Nik1hil]

@Sjeggy opinion owner was anonymous his calling didn't work

[sherbearee]

guys can have preeety big egos too.
money and looks may be good, but DEFINITELY not the most important

[xOGxDub]

Only thing in my experience that girls want in a guy is
for him to have

money
a car
be skinny or muscular
be handsome
a job
loyal
sane
and loving/lovable
want kids
be nice

these are 10 things every girl wants in a guy

if you dont at least have 7 of these you're screwed

not only girls same with guys to a girl

[fun-weird-guy]

I do not have a lot of money, I do not have a vehicle, I do have a belly but other than that I am in good shape, I do not want any kids and neither does she besides the one she had with her ex. Her son is 21. My girlfriend have been happily together for 2 years and 18 days including today.

[xOGxDub]

@fun-weird-guy
your girlfriend must be happy that she has at least found someone
have you ever heard of the saying "beware of a woman with a broken heart"?

[fun-weird-guy]

Yes I have heard of that but what do you mean by it?

[xOGxDub]

@fun-weird-guy justb keep it in mind

[fun-weird-guy]

You are only 15 years old in either 8th or 9th grade. What do you think you are going to teach me about women and love?

[sherbearee]

I think it's just a mixture of mutual respect and understanding, these two encompass most of those points.
good for you, @fun-weird-guy :)

[xOGxDub]

I'm in the 10th grade
my birthday is this February so basically 16 and
I've never been in love because i dont know what love is.. everything i told you about isn't love i've never whitnessed it and I've never been in it. but i will tell you my dad cheated on and left my mom for another woman 1 block down our street

when i told you "beware of a woman with a broken heart" this is what i was reffuring to
see, my dad never did love my mom the 17 years they were together and if that wasn't love he gave her for 17 years i dont know what love is... never been in it and never seen it

my mom got with any man she could find to numb the pain any man..
and you said your girlfriend has been together for 2 years she might be trying to numb her pain too
or i could just say this... you haven't really experienced love either...
if you catch my drift

[sherbearee]

Im sorry about what happened with your mother, and thank you for sharing.
I'd say it's different for everyone, and people have different coping methods, some more healthy than others. Nonetheless, thanks for sharing

[xOGxDub]

thanks.

[fun-weird-guy]

@Opinion Owner What we have is true love. We care care of one another when they are sick. We both do the cooking and cleaning. We both have planed vacations for the other to places they wanted to go as a surprise because it is something they would like. We also do things together that we both like to do. We are there for each other through the bad and good times. Do not ever again say that I have not experienced love. Also do not ever again say my girlfriend is trying to numb the pain because she has not been with like a few years before we met. The relationship that we have is about love, care, respect, honesty, trust, communication etc. By the way you are still 15 and not basically 16 because your birthday is around 4 months away. You are still in the high school phase of your life and that part of me I left behind 13 years 4 months and 2 days ago because that is when I started to work and not be working while in high school also.

[fun-weird-guy]

@OpinionOwner you are also in the period of your life where most are looking for now and not for the one.

[xOGxDub]

@fun-weird-guy 4 months is nothing
and love is not cooking for one another people cook for me all the time and neither is being sick
people at my hospital do that for me thats not love

you can't tell if someone loves you until its either them or you and you
and by time you realized they love you its too late

[fun-weird-guy]

What did you mean by you can't tell if someone loves you until its either them or you and you
and by time you realized they love you its too late A Just because you have no idea what love is does not mean I do not know what love is because I do. My parents have been happily married for 42 years.

[xOGxDub]

@fun-weird-guy
I see you don't understand.. i think i'm not the ones who is uneduacated about love
or it just may be uneduacated in vocabulary not sure

[DeltsBrah]

You don't need money to get a girl. Not everyone is good looking either and people couple up either way. You don't need 7 of 10. You're 15 years old and have no idea what you're talking about.

[xOGxDub]

@DeltsBrah
so you're judging me by my age is that it?

[YusiBear]

But most importantly, women have rights; We should respect that!
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[Phoenix98]

Lmao swan dive to safety.

[sherbearee]

that's a really attractive dive...

[YusiBear]

DJ Khaled, Really?
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[Anonymous]

I'm just laughing at some of the male user's responses... they are jaded af. That is definitely not what I want, no pessimistic attitude, rude, or mean behavior.

Like you said, he has some interests in common, a heart (caring and kindness go a long way with me), a brain (happy, logical attitude) and an open mind are pretty good.

[BumbleSuperBee]

As much as we try explaining for guys that we don't all want the same things, guys are still gonna believe what they want to believe. They're as close-minded as that.

[alfonsosloan45]

That is why I ask women what they want AND THEY CAN'T FUCKING TELL ME

[SIGguy]

@alfonsosloan45 Probably because they don't want you changing just to suit them, or they don't think it's really any of your business. Take your pick.

[alfonsosloan45]

So then don't complain @SIGguy

[BumbleSuperBee]

We ALWAYS give answers but u guys keep believing what u want. @alfonsosloan45

[alfonsosloan45]

@op Then tell me what you want.

[alfonsosloan45]

@BumbleSuperBee What you really really want.

[AleDeEurope]

You can't just generalize that all guys are close-minded, that makes you close-minded. Usually it's bitter online guys who believe all women want is money, jut like it's only bitter online girls who believe all men want is sex.

[BumbleSuperBee]

U can't blame me since I never met a guy who actually believed it when a girl said she cares about other stuff than money and his looks. (online, I mean)
@AleDeEurope

[BumbleSuperBee]

What the take owner said sums it up. @alfonsosloan45

[sherbearee]

yeah we definitely don't all want the same things.. some of them are close minded, some not. :) looking for the ones who aren't!

[AleDeEurope]

But then you can't blame those guys who think all girls just want money cause maybe they haven't met a girl that actually wants something more than money.

I don't believe all girls want is money, most girls aren't that superficial, but I've met girls who just want that, and maybe other guys have only met those type of girls.

[mskay]

Honestly.. gotta agree with ya on that. But I wouldn't say they're all close minded tho, maybe some are, but some aren't. I mean online, not offline. Sometimes arguing with them is just pure pointless tbh.

[AleDeEurope]

Look at all them males whining and crying... nature's amazing.

[sherbearee]

hey just because you have little to worry about doesn't mean others are as lucky ! X)

[Damiandash312]

Just saying I'm broke and jobless atm yet gals are still approaching me regularly (even knowing this)... You know, maybe y'all guys bitching are ugly and uninteresting.

[sherbearee]

well kudos to you! haha

[Riggers]

Nice read, Now lets see what girls REALLY look for in guys

A) How hot / muscular you are
B) What career you have / what your income is
C) If you have an... ''Alpha'' personality.

You need at least 1 of those to pass. Otherwise your fucked.

[fun-weird-guy]

My girlfriend makes more money than I do and I do have a belly. I not sure how much of an alpha personality I would have.

[sherbearee]

true, true, but they have to have the ones listed first... Those^ are just extra.
And even those are subjective.. so even a "slight" in any of them is cool
alpha=/= arrogance, right?

[Riggers]

Alpha dosen't equal arrogance, Alpha = Physicially and mentally superior.

[Pampered]

My boyfriend is skinny, makes a little more than me and I always tell him to pursue what makes him HAPPY, even if he doesn't make a lot (i'd rather be with a guy who's happy because he loves his job than with a guy who makes a lot of money and is always stressed), and he isn't "alpha" at all. He's quiet and laid back and doesn't like fighting. He's the sweetest, most mature guy I could ever ask for <3 stop repeating what other guys say about girls and experience them for yourself.

[Roostah]

Where is 8/10+ looks, money and high social status?

We talking hookups right?

[sherbearee]

Naah not AS important.

And nope not hookups lol

[Anonymous]

An easier my take would have been to just say, money, money, and mo' money, Lts face it, unless she's working herself, and at a high paying job, like a lawyrer, then he HAS to be making a lot of money. If they plan to raise a child, have a house and have at least one car maybe two, one of the parents has to be making a lot of money, I'm talking lots

[fun-weird-guy]

I work in retail and there are two people who work at the same store I do that are married to each other

[sherbearee]

if that were true, there'd be like 100 humans left in a few years

[Opinion Owner]

You down vote because you know it's the truth

[Anonymous]

You summed it all up in a drawing that these foo's still don't get it

[sherbearee]

Albeit messy drawing :)

[Anonymous]

This is what I thought that women looked for in men
1. A big dick (6in-12in or higher)
2. Solid six pack
3. Nice hair (any decent/astounding haircut)
4. Nice clothes
5. Smells good
5. Big muscles (Dwane Johnson body)
7. Deep voice
8. Stone hard hands
9. Makes everyone laugh (in a good way)
10. Gets a lot of pussy

[sherbearee]

nah, if that were true the human race would die out within a few decades

[Anonymous]

what girls want in a guy to have a kind heart, care for her, a beautiful personality...
why do all people tell that girls only want guys with money, beautiful body (...)? Girls aren't all superficial! Inside beauty is the key to attractiveness.

[Nik1hil]

Problem with it is no one wants to fuck, nobody false in love with someone personality in first, cause all that muscles abes and luxury money and fame and respect attracts. Along with above 5 things.
When was the last time as the bar you say on guys saying to other, 'Dude check out the soul of that girl, it's so pure.'..

[Nik1hil]

Problem with it is that nobody wants to fuck it. Nobody falls in love with...

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Funny guys are the best. My dream is to marry someone who's funny.

[sherbearee]

Yeah that's an important one for me too :P

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Yeah 😍😍😍

[Sjeggy]

can someone please message Ginnyweasley and say that she misunderstood me? i wasn't talking about her :O

[AleDeEurope]

@ginnyweasley

[ginnyweasley]

oh really? elaborate on how i misunderstood you. i thought you said everything perfectly clear

[Damiandash312]

lol it seemed to me he was agreeing with you and making a jab at the GUYS who are being salty up in here @ginnyweasley lol

[sherbearee]

yeah, ginnyweasley I don't think he meant that towards you, im pretty sure he meant that
"because admitting that you're (the GUY is) ugly is a hard thing to do"
^.^

[ginnyweasley]

Okayy

[Sjeggy]

yeah i wasn't insulting you! :D

[Anonymous]

And the hidden number one answer is, drum roll please!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-0kcet4aPpQ

[sherbearee]

naaaw XD

[Anonymous]

Lol you're 17. Everyone knows girls look for money.

[GreatnessPersonified]

Sounds like you got no girls.

[sherbearee]

O. o lool and bingo was his name-o

[Opinion Owner]

Try keeping a girl with no money, wise guy.