How do Men get into the Friend Zone? The Friend Zone is a pill that is usually hard to swallow by men of all ages. It is the quintessential sign that you are lacking confidence and or flirting skills. There are a ton of men in which this disease called The Friend Zone practically dibalitates them for month's or even years. Unfortunately every woman they meet cast them into the depths of hell with no explanation as to why. Why does this happen? Is it that the women are not sexually attracted to them? The answer is YES and NO.
Lets get into it.
The biggest problem is that men don't recognize the signs that the woman is into them. In the beginning a woman may give you signs that say... HEY MAKE A MOVE STUPID. You have to assert yourself when the opportunity arises. The respect is lost if the window of opportunity closes and then this is when you become just a friend. Once this happens it will be a tough road trying to get out. Too many men seek advice on how to get out of the friend zone with out really caring about the reason why it happened in the first place. Here are just a few simple things you should do if you want to make sure that The Friend Zone doesn't happen to you:
1. Have your own opinion.
You need to be able to not fear that you will upset her because you have your own opinion on a subject matter that you are discussing. You can't agree on everything and if you do that is a red flag to her. Challenge her with your own opinions and ideas. The mere thought of losing her because you upset her is something you need to get over. Do not catch a bad case of ONEITUS. That is worse than the FRIEND ZONE.
2. Control the conversation.
Don't allow her to talk about other men she is interested in with you as if you are some girlfriend of hers. Don't be a puppy dog or an ear piece that just listens and agrees. Once this happens your done. Change the subject immediately or else you will end up shoe shopping with her next week.
3. Flirt Flirt Flirt.
For God sakes if you are into her ... ACT LIKE IT. Look into her eyes and tell her she is sexy. Act as if you will never get another chance. Don't just open doors for her ...grab her hand and escort her through the door. If you are walking to a coffee shop or some other venue... grab her hand and say "lets go slow poke." Keep her on her toes. Have confidence in your sex appeal and your worth. Women are not attracted to self doubt. Flirting has to be always a part of your interactions because without it she will not know you are interested. So don't act as a friend and you won't get treated like one.
4. Get a life.
Make sure your life is full of whatever it is your passionate about so that you have something else to discuss than being "THAT GUY" who sits on the couch every weekend. Guys who have problems with the Friend Zone usually don't live a life of passion and purpose and when they meet a woman they have nothing to talk about because they are embarrassed. How can she be interested in you if there is nothing to you.
5. Get some balls.
If you are interested in more than a friendship with this person make it known. Do not settle for just friendship with out at least making a move. Look into her eyes and tell her there is something about her that draws you in and that you would like to explore this on a more intimate level. It is better to be rejected and received then the entire situation be ambiguous. If she saids no than a friendship is fine but please make sure its a Quid Pro Quo situation. Say... hey next time we hang out bring some hot friends... what are friends for? Right?
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