Why are players and bad boys usually good looking?

Has anyone else noticed that the so called players and bad boys are usually better looking than the nice guys? I don't want to seem shallow but why are the bad boys usually good looking and the good boys are usually not as good looking?


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  • Because good looking guys have grown up thinking that the world loves them and they can get whatever woman they want. So growing up with that mentality of "I can have her because look at me", he doesn't really grow to respect a woman. To him, women are easy. Anything that comes easy people tend not to really appreciate because they are easily replaceable. To a really good looking guy who has it going on, 99 out of 100 women are easily replaceable. The moment he comes across a better looking girl or more whatever he's looking for, he can drop you and more than likely be able to land her because he's got the stuff to do that.

    So if he can get women that easily, he never really sees them as anything valuable. How do people treat things they don't see as valuable? They don't care. Maybe one day he meets a girl that really gets under his skin and such, but most of that is just rom-com trash and the guy is almost always stuck in his ways because that's how he grew up.

    Guys that aren't very good looking had a rough time of the dating game, so obviously when a girl falls for him it's much more rare. She's not easy to replace. So he quickly learns the value of such relationships. He treats the person like a person because he realizes the value of people. Looks alone would never cut it for him, so he grew up thinking "Wow, it kind of sucks when people don't value you just because you're not good looking". People who are really good looking don't get an accurate view of humanity the way others do, because people are always treating them differently based on their looks.

    These people who are average, below average, whatever have you look wise, they appreciate the reality that being dismissed for shallow factors sucks, that it probably equally sucks for other people, and so they don't want to treat others that way- since they been there. The whole empathy/sympathy thing comes into play.

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    • What if a girl they are interested in rejects them or ignores them?

    • Onto the next one. Maybe he makes another run at getting in her pants, but he more than likely just dips out. Why waste his time? Options are plentiful.

What Guys Said 11

  • When a guy realizes he's good looking, he realizes he has the power to get what he wants.

    Power corrupts and goes to a person's head, which turns them into an asshole.

    It takes a special kind of person to resist the dark side, most can't do it.

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  • Because they can get away with it.

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  • This isn't completely true, but certainly it is sometimes. Probably because the bad boy is bad, because he knows he is good looking and can get female attention more readily. I think that says more about a woman's choice in a man. If you know he is a player, why bother?

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    • The same question can be asked of guys, who chase hot bimbos.

    • True, but more often than not, a guy is just looking to get laid if that is what he is going for. I see more hurt women than I do men because they want something a bad boy can't give them.

  • I think it's because if a dude is good looking from an early age he learns he can get away with more so he'll try to push the envelope as far as he can. Regular dudes can't really do that.

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  • Because you watch too much tv

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  • Not really, they just think they are, they are regular guys that are over confident and rude and use this to get girls.

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  • Beause the good guys r 2 deep to care about their appearance

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  • Coz bad looking guys can't afford to be bad boys and players to be very true.

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  • im the nice type so your saying im ugly for being nice.. this hurts :( no wonder girls ignore me

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  • a better way of phrasing it would be why are good looking guys and bad boys players? not the other way around

    good looking guys can be players because they're good looking and girls want them. Many less attractive guys would be players too if girls wanted them. What guy wouldn't want to bang girls left and right?

    argus14 is right on the bad boy part. their looks allow them to get away with almost anything.

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  • Because they have found that's what brings them the most success with girls, and because they can. It's pretty hard to be a player if girls don't find you attractive.

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What Girls Said 3

  • Good looking guys are more prone to become players and bad boys simply because aware of their looks and they use it as an advantage towards girls. Their confidence entices girls, and that combined with the good looks is just a deadly weapon.

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  • Because they have more confidence and get more girls so it goes to their heads.

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  • The good looking guys are the ones who CAN BE players and bad boys.
    The not-so-good-looking guys would be put in their place in a heartbeat.
    That's just the way people are.

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