I'm scared that I won't be a good boyfriend. What do you need in a boyfriend?

So there's this girl that i like and her friends say that she likes me. Im thinking about asking her out but im scared that I won't be a good enoough boyfriend and she will dump me. What do i need to make sure i do in order to be a good boyfriend if i end up asking her out?

Thanks in Advance!


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Girls like a combination of a bad boy and a gentlemen. DONT be a bad boy, although DONT be a push over (yes-man) door mat or what ever. Girls like guys who can stand up for not only themselves and for them too. Girls LOVE PDA so hold her hands in public and kiss her cheek in front of her friends - trust me it'll make her blush. Don't be over protective but don't be so laid back to the point where she's off doing God know what. Have a great sense of humor, open the door for her. And most of all be yourself. She's attracted to you so that's a score. Respect her and basically make her feel loved. Now if she doesn't do anything in return- dump her.

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What Girls Said 6

  • BE A GENTLEMAN! I swear if you do that, you got it. Guys always think there's all this stuff you need to do and that you have to be perfect. Girls don't care.

    1. Do the little things! Like bring her candy once in a while.

    2. Laughing cures everything. Make her laugh.

    3. Show her to your friends. Let her know that you want her to be apart of your life.

    4. Be yourself. Seriously. Because if you act like something you're not, it will end. And not well.

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  • Just be yourself, the fact you're asking this question shows you're thoughtful and thinking of her needs not your own only. You'll be a great boyfriend bro. If she doesn't like it she doesn't deserve you. :) True.

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  • I'm sure you are good enough for her. The fact that you're asking this question shows that you care a lot.
    Honestly, I just look for someone honest, intelligent, funny and has similar interests as me.

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  • Hey you can message me! And just be who you are if she doesn't like you then move on dont bewho others want you to be, be your self, want more advice just message me. :)

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  • Okay, the main thing is being yourself. Don't be too influenced by these articles you are about being the 'perfect boyfriend'. All you have to be is yourself.
    Be kind, caring, offer support and if you want to treat her from time to time. Do what you feel comfortable with. If she doesn't like how you are as a boyfriend, then she's not the right one for you. :)

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  • Hey! I'm a girl of seventeen years, which I think is roughly how old you are. In order to be a good boyfriend, be attentive; listen to what she says. Don't, however, make her feel uncomfortable by asking her too many questions about herself (feel free to talk about yourself sometimes.) Also, show her you care; if she has an exam or something she is worried about, be sure to ask her how it went. Try to understand her point of view: for example, if she is a massive Beatles fan, but you hate them, listen to a few of the songs of theirs that she likes.
    Hope this helped! :)

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    • yeah im 17 too haha. so focus on showing her that i care?

What Guys Said 2

  • loyalty. respect. im just spitballin here. also know how to keep the relationship spicy.

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    • by spicy you mean exiting right?

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    • basically whatever you ordinarily do, try something new. that's all.

    • thanks

  • Don't piss her off or do it for fun

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