My boyfriend says he wants to be with me but can't help wanting to sleep around. Please help.

don't you think that you can still love him, be with him while he has his nights in other beds?
for example I am loving my girlfriend above all but sometimes I just need to be with someone else for the night.
Of course I'm honest with my girlfriend and she knows about it and she even does give me sometimes a condom or two when I'm out with my friends.
it ain't so, that I am sidestepping every night but maybe once a month or maybe every two months. she knows that she's my girl and everything is fine but in bed I need sometimes someone else. I don't know why but after the sidestep I love her even more. hmm
well. now to you
if you can not accept it that he has fun outside your bedroom then there is no way that you two can last together
if you accept it , he might love you even more. you said it yourself that he treats you good.
anything in between is not going to work I think so you have to choose. end it or accept it.
Worst advice ever. If you "need to sleep with someone else sometimes" you're not mature enough to be in a committed relationship. A girlfriend who accepts this behavior lacks self-respect. And how can you respect her if she allows it? Would you be ok with your girl sleeping around? Of course not! You're a chump and your girl is a fool.
You can't be happy with somebody you don't trust. Dump him before you get hurt even more. Even if you have to move back in with your parents who cares because at least you'll be out of this bad situation.
Do all guys think this way. We have amazing and I mmean amazing sex why isn't that enouggh? I fell so hard for him and I don't know if I can let go. What if he realized he reallly doesn't want to cheat and he really does want me and only me? Do you think it's possible?
Not all guys are like him. If I'm in love I don't want to sleep with anybody else. I might see a woman on the street and think she looks pretty but I won't want to sleep with her. If he is telling you about his urges to sleep around he is preparing you for finding out that he is sleeping around. If he is talking and flirting with other women that is a very bad sign. This guy could end up giving you STD's. I would leave and never look back if I were you.
"Recently we don't do anything together any more. If we go out he avoids me and I constantly see him flirting with other girls some he has had sex with already."
You are being a complete fool. "He treats me so good besides this." Um, it doesn't matter what else he does, this is a deal breaker. He's not mature enough for a committed relationship and the only thing to do if you want to maintain a shred of self-respect is let him go.
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