My boyfriend says that I make him feel stupid. How can I fix this?

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As a college student, all my focus is going into my grades, career, and relationship to build a life. After years of studying and marketing myself, I'm finally seeing small successes in my career and my grades. However, my boyfriend says that these things make him feel stupid or inferior because I make all A's and have been finding success in my work.

The other day I told him about something that I had achieved that was a big deal to me, and his response was, "oh... of course it was you who got the award..." and never mentioned it again. He was also up for the award, and he didn't get it. I understand his disappointment but I also know that if I hadn't gotten it and he did, I would have been so happy for him. His successes are my successes, I just wish he saw it the same way.

It is hard for me to put so much effort into a relationship just to feel like I am not getting any support back. I don't want to make him feel stupid, but I don't know how to fix this because all I am doing is working hard to achieve my dreams. Am I doing something wrong? Please help!
My boyfriend says that I make him feel stupid. How can I fix this?
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