So I've been friends with this girl for about a year, we are both 19 and go to the same school. We are both home for summer and she currently lives 1 hour away. So communication is through calling/texting atm.
We have hung out a few times together throughout the summer but I have never specified it as a date. Good chemistry etc
Last night we were talking and I specified i wanted to take her out on a date when she returned from a small trip (2 weeks) . When I did it took her a good 30 minutes to reply and at the time I kinda took it as a no, I never saw the message till the following morning where she said "yeah that's fine" At which point I replied and asked her when she returned, and she hasn't replied all day?
Not sure if by not seeing the message and replying at the time she saw it as I was not too interested. I also don't want to text her again and end up coming off needy you know
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To me it sounds like she's not sure how she feels about you but is willing to give it a shot. This is good - it means you still have a chance! She could have just turned you down but she's willing to see what happens.
If she's unsure, you don't want to push her too far otherwise she'll get scared and just end it. So be prepared to take it very slowly. Of course, if she starts to show signs of interest and of moving things along then you can move faster, but you need to wait for those signs.0