I really like a girl at my university, but we don't know each other at all - other than she has seen me speak about psychology and I have seen her speak about psychology (in the class, one student teaches the first hour of every lecture)..
so we both have an impression of one another - and I like what she had to say, or at least how she said it..
any way, today was the last day of class, so after I waited in the hall. she walked right by me and went to the elevator, - so I pretended I was taking the elevator too. we started talking, and I soon I was getting out on her floor. we continued the conversation and everything felt really natural -neither of us were searching for things to say, we were just walking and talking as if we had known each other for a long time.
any way, we arrived to the lab she was going and it was obvious that I had gone out of my way, so rather than making up an exuse for why I was there - I asked her if she would like to have coffeee sometime. she said yes before I finished studdering out the words and wrote her name and number on my hand even though she had paper.. and then invited me to a holoween party tomorrow night..
any way, I was sure she was interested at that point, and was really exited to see her again until I found her on facebook and saw that she 'is in a relationship'
so, as always, I am confused about a woman... but I don't even know if he lives here.. we are in amsterdam and both of us are new to the city, so maybe he is in another country.. I don't know. but I know that I really like her, and that never happens to me.
so I guess what I want to know is, when a guy and a girl don't know each other, and he asks her to have coffee - she knows it is supposed to be a date right? and she wouldn't give him her number and invite him to a party without ever considering that he likes her would she? it's impossible isn't it?
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Actually I don't know the answer, but I have a quite similar experience, I was interested in a chinese girl for 7 months, but cudnt ask her out because she works in a restaurent and it's always busy. But she clearly show me that she is interested in me, she even asked personal things about me! But once I saw her with a guy in the same res: (she is not working at that day) in a corner table with another asian guy. Finally I gave up it but she seems still interested me. So I just said her that I saw her with a guy and she responded that it's her singapporean boyfriend. Actually I still wonder what happened and I'm in such a shock! Did she wait for me for few months and dated that guy or she just want to get some help from me (coz she said she wanted to give up her other job). Actually women are such a misterious creatures for me! How many ugly guys have been dating beautiful girls, I mean why I'm a total failure at this, still wondering! Actually I'm good looking and doing a decent job. Even she knows I'm 1000 times golden than that asian guy! I'm 24 and never been in a relationship, actually I don't have female friends. Another girl in the same restaurent became just a little bit nicer than that. Guess wat? she added me in her FB and I asked for a date and she agreed! But the day before the date she cancelled it for no reason! She even has a boyfriend but he is in USA, this taiwanese gal knows that her boyfriend is not into her anymore (most probably) but I got to knw that she has a boyfriend after I added her on FB! So It's not a sin! Any ideas? But If no one wants me I don't want anyone, because as man I don't give any crap out to any bi**h!0