What a mess! How did this start? Who took the initiative? I'm not judging you, but I will let you know this.
Sex is really like a drug. Once you start a sexual relationship with someone, it'll be easy to relapse. So if this girl continues to be her friend, Every time you two see each other, sex will be on the mind, and one of you will get jealous. Why did you let it get this far? Are you in love with your gf?
Things could NEVER get back to normal, even if they never find out. I truly hope she does, and moves on.
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You need to stop. You're already hurting your friend, his marriage, and your relationship. Just stop before things continue to escalate because when your partners find out, bad things are going to happen. What you're doing isn't fair to your girl or your friend and they shouldn't have to deal with your lies behind their backs.
pretty simple... stop. Just stop before you both ruin your happy lives and your other partners happy lives. Probably avoid at all cost being in the room alone together and probably really shouldn't even see each other much anymore and try to forget your mistake if at all possible.
What a mess. End relationship with current partners and let the dust settle then get together but don't ever let them find out the truth it will cause too much hurt and resentment. I've been in a similar situation and got caught and u really don't want that to happen. Good luck
Cold turkey. Can't talk to or see her for awhile... a long while.
AND, find out what is wrong with your relationship so you stop feeling the urge to cheat.
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That's unforgivable. Once a cheater always a cheater. She gave you a second chance that means she really loves you but you still cheat on her. Tsk tsk. You're a mess. Its not too late. Talk to her. Admit your mistake. Its up to her if she still wants to be with you after this.
Just stop. It's simple. It's not fair to your girlfriend, nor is it to the husband.
Imagine you were in your girlfriends shoes. Just say you eventually found out, how would you feel? Would you care that your partner can't seem to stay away from that person? I bet you won't.
It's not fair that you cheated more than once yet you still want your girlfriend.You have to stop this now. Stay away from her. Avoid going to places where she will be. If you love your girlfriend, you will truly regret this. It's just not worth it man. When the attraction fades and trust me, it will, you'll be left with a big mess, not really knowing how to get out of it. Especially if this other woman develops feelings for you.
Just stop.What answer are you expecting from here? It simple stop sleeping with her. Just STOP. You make it out to be some impossible feat of magic that is beyond you.
So you don't want to hurt you partner and you don't want to stop sleeping with her best friend (because if you did you would). You live in a fantasy land mate. Newsflash the damage has been done. Do your gf a favour and tell her the truth.
And please grow a set of balls, became a man and stop victimizing yourself over this.Ugh. Just don't do it. People are acting as if monogamy is impossible. If you really want to be together tell your spouse's divorce them and go into a relationship without ruining the sanctity of marriage.
Why did you both feel inclined to have to cheat on them? Seriously you could save them the time/energy they are wasting on you two and let them live their own lives and start new.
Cut off your penis because you're a bad bad man... Make sure you tell your girlfriend and her best friends husband as well...
you're fucking daft ain't ya. Pray you get caught out. you're wife deserves better than you. Hope you get exposed.
you guys are disgusting! scum to be exact. if i would be your wife, id cut your dick off
someone is going to wind up dead, that's for sure.. and ending it won't stop that.
Hey... that's not right... what if your gf was seeing your best mate... how would you feel?
Damage is done, ball is in your guys' court. No one has to know, but will it turn up eventually? Probably...
Hope ur girl and ur mistress 's man are having sex as well
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