Honestly, your son has a great mom that raises a young man with a good head on his shoulders. Listen to his advice. You two are not together, so you have no right to be mad. Even if the kids weren't in the car and he is in fact seeing this women, he has every right to do that. Just like you have the right to see other men.
If a relationship is what you want, you need to show him that being in a relationship with you would feel amazing and be the best decision he ever could make. Go on that date. Have a great time and just make sure that every time he is with you all he can think about is how great he feels. Other girls don't matter, so you have no reason to talk with him about him.
Most Helpful Opinions
I think your son was right at first about trying to play it off that you didn't see him. I also think your son is right about you not having the right to be mad, however, I don't think your son is right in that you should see him so easily. If he was open about him talking to another lady, then sure, you son would be right, but the fact that he never mentioned it... Tells me that he's just trying to have his cake and eat it too... Trying to fulfill his sexual desires without caring about the feelings of the women he gets with.
Do you think that could be his wife? Did he tell you he has a wife? What if he is cheating on her by being with you? Maybe whenever he brings up his kids try asking about their mother if you don't already know about it.
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
4Opinion
don't put yourself through hell for his pleasure, I'm sure he is a great guy, but you desire a relationship and you have the right to be up front with him about that, you seem like a great chick, I assume the relationship has developed to the point where u can sit down and talk to him about what direction the relationship is going in, if he's at a point in his life where he's not ready to date u need to figure out
She might just be a friend. I have female friends that I hang out with one on one but it's nothing more than friendship. I've always wondered how a girl I was seeing would react if I bumped into her while I was spending time with me friend. My friend is from overseas she doesn't have many friends here , so I like to make her feel welcome in my country by showing her places to go ect. They seriously might just be friends
not have sex with a man you are not dating. he has every right to see other woman and not tell you if you are not dating
Stop being a jealous stalker. You said you aren't together yet, so he has a right to go out with other women. Are you one of those women who get jealous if their boyfriends even glance at another girl? You're already getting jealous of someone you're not serious with. Funny how your 16 year old son is smarter than you. No wonder your single.
I think your son is right
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
Most Helpful Opinions