I had sex with this guy last Tues and Wed. We had a great time, he texts me all the time and we get along great. But we are not dating yet, but I want to. Today he said that he wanted to see me but the kids (4) were spending the night. So he made plans with me for this coming Tuesday. Then 2 hours or so later I saw him in Walmart ( I was with my 16 yr old son) he was with another woman, and no kids around. About 20 minutes after I saw him he texts me ( he was most likely still with her) and said something about the kids being in the car and they were fighting etc. I per my sons advice played it off and talked to him. He text me for the next hour or so, I'm sure she was with him. He did not mention her at all and I didn't either. My son tells me I don't have a right to be mad because we aren't dating, he said I should still go over there on Tuesday and spend time with him and prove to him I'm the better woman. He is a really awesome guy and we have a great time together. I want a relationship with him but now feel stupid because I saw him with someone else. Were the kids really in the car? Who knows.
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Honestly, your son has a great mom that raises a young man with a good head on his shoulders. Listen to his advice. You two are not together, so you have no right to be mad. Even if the kids weren't in the car and he is in fact seeing this women, he has every right to do that. Just like you have the right to see other men.
If a relationship is what you want, you need to show him that being in a relationship with you would feel amazing and be the best decision he ever could make. Go on that date. Have a great time and just make sure that every time he is with you all he can think about is how great he feels. Other girls don't matter, so you have no reason to talk with him about him.1