My boyfriend is three years older than me. He was in the military for a little bit and got discharged medically or something. He never sent to war. he's becoming a cop now. he's a really intimidating guy buff and just the way he carries himself. I'm getting genuinely scared of him though.
He likes to really dominate me with sex he throws me around and hurts me but I think I like it sometimes. he's sort of hot headed but I know he has a good heart. I would never try to make him mad because I know it would be terrifying I've seen him yell before.
He says things that scare me too like I said I was going to kill him jokingly and he was asking how I was going to do it you got a plan cmon going in depth asking if j have what it takes. He said it in a joking way but I know he has the potential to kill someone. I don't know how I should bring this up but he's just a scare man. Is this normal?
Most Helpful Girl
Many many returning soldiers become police officers. There's a similar environment. Being a soldier or officer makes for a difficult romantic partner. I'm fairly certain police have one of the highest rates of divorce because their schedules don't work well for a family. It is very concerning when it comes to his temperament. Granted, you should never joke about death with a soldier. You should never be scared of your partner. Police officers can be aggressive. It takes a special person to be with a police officer. Just some things to consider.0
- Show AllShow Less