My boyfriend loves anime abd sometimes I worry the reason why he loves it so much is because of the sexual girls why do guys like those girls so much and should I worry?
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Because they are cute. It's obviously over-the-top cutesy much of the time, but it's suspension of disbelief. They are just such warm and adorable characters. Often there's a bit of fan-service thrown in when the target audience is male and there are characters that are cute girls because guys are attracted to cute.
When I started watching anime, I noticed that the characters typically are more one-dimensional. They will have a more limited personality but focus more intensely on one or a few traits. Hence you end up with characters that are super cutesy, or mean and bitter all the time, or are show-offs. Some characters might also come with a bit or a gimmick, like say falling asleep randomly or taking clothes off (Gray Fullbuster).
So I was a little bothered by the one-dimensional characters at first but that's just the way they prefer to construct characters in that culture, you get used to it. Now I just think of the cute anime girls as endearing, it's a bit silly but still so cute (and I don't mind a bit of fan-service). You've got nothing to worry about, it's not like he's going to leave you for a cartoon character. This is in the same vein as "why does my bf still look at porn?" Guys are always going to think people/characters are attractive, cute or sexy. It's just not going away, ever, plain and simple. We don't have an issue with it, yet girl's apparently do. But you can't really take away what guys look at, that's really controlling. What is comes down to is that controlling a person is a real problem and is more severe than being bothered by a non-problem. To be blunt, the onus is on the girls to get over their craziness.0