I am 25 year old male, super-shy, never had a girlfriend, never been kissed and obviously a virgin. With all that wrapped into one, it makes me lack confidence - big time. I still live with my parents, play lots of video games and watch a lot of movies. I do go out from time to time, but I don’t go to bars or clubs because I don’t drink and don’t enjoy being around those environments. But I still struggle and still get nervous around girls I find attractive. I talk to very few females on a regular basis. I have never been approached by women or known of a woman who has ever had romantic feelings for me... ever, yet I see guys who have nothing going for them who get women at the drop of a hat. I get very envious of them.
I'm sure everyone that knows me would consider me to be a very nice person. I’m kind-hearted, intelligent, considerate, responsible and respectful. As far as looks go, I would consider myself average. I'm a little overweight but I’m working on losing a bit of weight. I just can't get over the shyness factor - not knowing what to say or even where to start a conversation. It's really a catch-22. I am extremely shy, not knowing what to say when I am out which in turn makes me feel even worse. The few times I did try and ask a girl out on a date I ended up looking like a bumbling idiot, it was really embarrassing. Having said that however, I'm not looking for a cheap hook up or a one night stand, I'm looking for a relationship.
Any suggestions on where to even begin? What’s your god honest opinion about me? Am I a loser?
Any replies would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.
Most Helpful Girl
You are fine, I am 22 never had a bf, never been kissed, never sexually touched a male and haven't had a guy touch me. I am obviously as virgin as it gets and I am not giving up. If a guy likes mw then something is right if a guy doesn't well doesn't mean I am doing something wrong either. You perhaps need to not be a homebody but if that truly is you then find a chick who is like that. Find a girl who sees you for who you are, wants to make you a better person, be there for you and actually care. You aren't doing anything wrong sometimes it could be the wrong place. Trust me people where I love are not worth it such ugggh waste of time.0
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