HE CANCELED OUR DATE AND didn't RESCHEDULE, WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?

[Anonymous]

Basically, the title says it all.. He canceled on me last minute, didn't reschedule and hasn't texted me yet even though I've seen him being online more than just 1 time.
24h have already passed.
He was the one who asked me out in the first place.

[tizz704]

I think he has interest in someone else. First rule of dating: if a guy wants to be with you, he will make it happen. Sorry, i would not give it too much thought.

[xPoison]

You should have told him you had a peanut butter and jelly sandwich waiting for him for the date

[Asker]

hahaaha i should have told him i had 1000 dollar worth lingerie but whatever :P i'll use that with somebody else then

[xPoison]

He only canceled once, no biggie. The fact he doesn't mention any rescheduling is a big deal though

[xPoison]

He didn't*

[xPoison]

Text him again with, "How was the meeting? Was it a meeting with Obama or the UN? Because it's been 24 hours and you have not texted me ever since... how the negotiating? "

[xPoison]

How's*

[Asker]

exactly what i was thinking... WTF? Guys can be soo confusing he texted me right the second he got my number [a gave it to my friend and she gave it to his friend and then he gave it to him] he asked me out on like Tuesday, the day was supposed to be on Friday [yesterday] we didn't talk the other days and then that day he messaged me and canceled.

[xPoison]

Maybe the fact you didn't text him in those days before Friday made him feel like you weren't interested. You had to keep the vibe throughout those days and show him you really wanted to see him.

[xPoison]

But he could have done the same but I assume he expected you to do it since after all you wanted your number on his phone

[Asker]

he's a 31 year old guy who runs his own business i doubt that he'd think like this hahaha

[xPoison]

Forget him then. Find another guy who wants to be all over you.

[Asker]

thats probably what im gonna end up doing.
but i'll wait a bit.. how long should i wait? like a week or so? im leaving on the 23rd of this month and he knows that...

[xPoison]

Give him 2-3 days max.

[Asker]

well 1 day has already passed... :P he's such a jerk ugh
but on the other hand, when i think about it my friend told his friend that "i like guys who give me a hard time"

[xPoison]

LOL really? He could possibly be doing that then. Your friend should go back to him and tell him, "I lied. My friend loves a guy of his words" :p

Give him 3 more days.

[Asker]

i think that the guys who replied that "he found a free booty call" etc are actually right... I don't know why i just have a feeling that his "late meeting" wasn't a business meeting and i had the feeling that he was gonna cancel when we agreed about the date taking place on Friday and i was right, he canceled on me!

[-Zoe-]

it means he changed his mind and is not into you anymore..

[Asker]

well that happened fast then..

[-Zoe-]

yah.. some guys easily changed their minds especially when they have other choices to choose from..

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Maybe he felt there was going be some rejection
so that's why he cancelled or could be some underling
issues he's dealing with.

[Asker]

he said "have to cancel tonight, have a late meeting, sorry"

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Yes you said, he is online you quote.."He canceled on me last minute, didn't reschedule and hasn't texted me yet even though I've seen him being online more than just 1 time 24h have already passed."

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

I would think he's not interested

[Asker]

but why did he ask me out then? He texted me right the second he got my number... he's confusing as f

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Yes, well i hate say this but when some guys
are looking just for sex they cancel dates when
they can find a free booty call that goes through
for them sorry

[rocccky]

that means he dont want too or may be he is busy in some trouble.
either way you can just wait for couple of days.

[Asker]

he actually canceled and said "have to cancel tonight, have a late meeting, sorry"

[rocccky]

did u reply... like its ok, we can do it some other time or call me whenever you are free.

[Asker]

i was so pissed and replied with: "fine with me"

[Genie23]

@rocccky He's probably had some other woman coming over at his house. You know. Booty call.
@Asker I'm sorry.. but you're wasting your time on a prick. You should forget about him. There are plenty of great guys out there!

[rocccky]

there you go wrong may be, but as he canceled it at last minute he deserve some punch. my advice is to wait, as he canceled so its his responsibility to call.

[Asker]

exactly what i was thinking! how long should i wait though?

[rocccky]

@Genie23 it can be, but we dont know it for sure. if there was a genuine reason he will call if not as you saying that he won't then @Asker you should forget as Genie said.

[rocccky]

and by waiting i only means to you dont text or call her.. not that keep waiting in love.

[Kshppatel]

He probably had his booty call coming over that night and he's laying low for now

[Asker]

hahaha you know actually thats what i've been thinking

[Anonymous]

Sorry, it's another girl. Some guys double book dates, and if the other girl seems like she's up for sex that night, they cancel on the second girl.

[Asker]

i was up for sex, even went to agent provocateur and got new lingerie

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds really disappointing. He went for what looked like a sure thing, since he was actually with her at the time. Seems to me he really missed out--but his loss.

[Asker]

how can u be so sure about that?

[Opinion Owner]

Can't be 100%. Could be totally innocent, possibly having to work late. But I know this sort of thing happens as I described. If he's really good with women, it's a possibility.

[Asker]

as far as i know he sucks when it comes to women hahahah

[Opinion Owner]

Hahahaha

Then chances are something came up and he didn't have the savvy to contact you earlier.

All the same, a date with a different guy is probably in order.

[Mysteriousss]

It means time to schedule a date with another guy.

[Asker]

already did that! haha dont worry, us girls, we think alike but i still can't get over the fact that i'd much rather go out with him

[Anonymous]

He has a family member in need, he is sick with the runs, a family member died, his gf is not approving of his date with you, his friend got a bunch off weed and booze and he chose that or any number of reasons.

[IMADETHIS]

It means you and I have free time ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)‎

[Asker]

I'm being serious...

[IMADETHIS]

Just wait a little bit he doesn't respond then he isn't that into you. If you in the Atlanta area tho you know who ta hit up ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)‎

[Kshppatel]

Lmao

[Asker]

sorry buddy I'm in Germany hahaha

[IMADETHIS]

Ich auch! Wenn wirdst du kommen aus Berlin?( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)‎

[Asker]

your german sucks big time

[IMADETHIS]

Yes I know

[IMADETHIS]

It took me five minutes to come up with that

[Genie23]

Lol!

[Anonymous]

IT MEANS YOU UGLY, YEAH YEAH, YOU UGLY.

[Asker]

hell to the yes!!! most helpful answer!