It might be just be me but I can go from 100% confident to extremely terrified of asking a woman out if there are other people around. If I know I'm in a crowded environment, I'll chicken out and not ask them out. Is this common or uncommon for a guy? Advice would be greatly appreciated. Also need advice from girls that have an opinon on if it's sexier to be asked out in front of people vs without other people around.
since the issue is about two people potentially dating, the matter should be between those two people only because it's really not anyone else's business. when i was single and looking for a relationship, I would ask the guy out when it's just me and him or I pull him aside to someplace mire private. If the guy were to ask me out, i would prefer if he didn't do it in public.
Another reason to ask in a more private setting is that maybe the girl doesn't want to date you or isn't interested and they would be more willing to let you down in private. When you ask a girl out public, sometimes the girl doesn't want to hurt your feelings front of others and may actually say yes and then ditch you later (i know ladies that do this).
I rather if anything, he pulls me aside to talk to me privately.
I don't blame you for being scared of asking out a woman in front of others. Guys, asking out a woman in the United States is a capital felony under Federal law that will easily get the entire U. S. Department of Homeland Security involved, and you potentially facing the death penalty under Federal law. At minimum, it's 375 years to life in Federal prison.
You think to much about it. Make your mind blank and say to yourself: I CAN DO IT. Then just go for it!
Whats the worst that can happen? They laugh at you? You won't see them again anyway ;)
GL, stop being in your head all the time!
It's no secret that asking a woman out can be a daunting task. After all, it's not always easy to tell if she's interested or not, and even if she is, there's always the fear of rejection. But don't worry - with a little confidence and some clever planning, you can definitely ask a woman out without breaking a sweat.
Here are a few tips on how to ask a woman out:
Asking a woman out too early can be a major turnoff, so it's important to make sure you have the timing right. If you've just met her, it's probably best to wait a few days or even a week before asking her out. This will give you time to get to know each other better and make sure she's actually interested in you.
On the other hand, if you've been friends for a while, you might want to ask her out sooner rather than later. The longer you wait, the more likely it is that she'll lose interest or find someone else.
Women are attracted to confident men, so it's important that you project confidence when asking her out. This doesn't mean you have to be cocky or arrogant, but you should definitely believe in yourself and your ability to make her happy.
When it comes to asking a woman out, it's important to be creative. A simple "Would you like to go out with me?" is likely to get rejected, so you need to put some thought into it.
One idea is to ask her out on a specific date, like a concert or a play. This shows that you've put some effort into planning and that you're not just asking her out because you're bored.
The worst thing you can do is beat around the bush. If you're interested in a woman, just ask her out directly. This can be scary, but it's the best way to ensure that she knows you're interested.
Unfortunately, not every woman you ask out is going to say yes. But that's okay - rejection is a part of life and you shouldn't take it personally. Just move on to the next woman and try again.
Asking a woman out doesn't have to be difficult. Just follow these tips and you'll be on your way to a successful date in no time.
It's no secret that asking someone out can be a daunting task, especially for women. Whether you're new to the dating scene or you've been out of the game for a while, the thought of putting yourself out there can be terrifying. But there's no need to worry - with a little preparation, you'll be ready to ask that special someone out in no time.
Here are a few tips to help you prepare:
If you're interested in someone, take the time to learn more about them. Find out their interests, hobbies, and what they're looking for in a relationship. This will not only help you determine if you're a good match, but it will also give you something to talk about when you finally ask them out.
You never get a second chance to make a first impression, so make sure you put your best foot forward. Dress to impress, be polite and respectful, and be yourself. If you make a good first impression, the person you're interested in will be more likely to say yes when you ask them out.
If you're feeling nervous about asking someone out, take some time to build up your confidence. Talk to your friends and family about your plans, practice what you're going to say, and remind yourself that there's nothing to be scared of. The more confident you are, the more likely you are to succeed.
When you finally ask the person out, be direct. Tell them that you're interested in them and would like to go on a date. Don't beat around the bush or try to be clever - just say what you mean. If they're interested, they'll say yes. If not, they'll say no. Either way, you'll know where you stand.
Rejection is a part of life, and it's something you should be prepared for when you ask someone out. If the person you're interested in says no, don't take it personally. They may not be ready for a relationship, or they may not be interested in you. Whatever the reason, don't take it to heart. Just dust yourself off and move on to someone else.
Asking someone out can be a scary proposition, but with a little preparation, you can do it with confidence. Just remember to do your research, make a good first impression, build up your confidence, be direct, and be prepared for rejection. If you keep these things in mind, you'll be ready to ask that special someone out in no time.
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I have the same problem.
I usually feel more comfortable when she is alone than in a crowd.
I could use some advice to.
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