Why do Albanian men not want to marry or have serious relationships with Canadian girls?
I guess if there are any Albanian men reading this, I would really appreciate your response. I fell for an Albanian guy who I basically had a great sexual relationship with but he told me from the beginning that he just wanted "fun". Of course, I'm an idiot and I thought he would fall for me. He was really sexually attracted to me and I know he really loved having sex with me but now he is engaged to a virgin back home and is planning to marry her soon. He still wanted to sleep with me but I just can't handle it so we stopped everything. I told him recently that I loved him and he was making a mistake marrying this other girl. He told me that he never felt love for me and it was only sex. I'm really hurt and heart broken by the whole thing. We had such a close, passionate intimate connection and I just don't understand how he couldn't have fell in love like I did. Try not to be too hard on me with your response because I'm pretty emotional about this. I just don't understand how he could so easily give me up?
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Now as far as the situation of this girl asking about her Albanian boyfriend, there is only one thing I can say: IF a guy tells you up front he just wants to have FUN, and nothing else then you best believe that's all he wants. And it does not matter if he is Albanian or not. That's just guys in general. And what you did, going in with the hopes of making him fall in love with you, was a big mistake and one that many girls make and will continue to make. WHY do women do this? Beats the hell outta me! I know this from personal experience. Cause I am 25 years old and have not had a serious relationship as of yet. I have always told any girl that I dated that I was not looking for anything serious, and that I will not think of a serious relationship and marriage or anything of that nature until I have reached certain goals that I have set for my career and my life. I know many of you will call me just another asshole for not wanting a relationship but just companionship, but I don’t care cause at least I was honest with all these girls up front and always respected them. And that is exactly what this girl asking advice should have done. She should have been honest and not start anything with the guy. Now the whole marriage thing I really cannot help there cause I do not plan on getting married any time soon and definitely am not going back home to get married to an Albanian woman. I am Albanian and its strange to me as well. Plus I do not date Albanian girls cause my experience with them in Albania was not the best and a couple I tried to date over here in NYC turned out to be hypocrites and full of drama and tried to use me. I have avoided dating Albanian girls since and I am not sure if I ever will, but who knows!
Anyway, this is my 2 cents on this topic. If any of you disagree with me, you are more than welcome to reply and we can have an interesting and stimulating discussion.
By the way I will not reply to rude and offensive posts.
The Albanian Guy.