Hey, so I've been worried, because my boyfriend told me the other evening that he d call me when he has time the day after... so we can meet up for a bit. The day passed without a call! he texted me later, like nothing happened "how are you ...?"
A few days later, we talked about not seeing each other much and When I said I've been waiting for his call he said he "FORGOT" to call me! sounds like an excuse to me...
Would you forgot to call your girlfriend ?
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Honestly I don't think it is much of a deal. If we expect so much from individuals, then our minds become clouded making fantasies of what could have happened, versus realising what actually was the situation.
1) I am very forgetful, but I try my best to remember cute things like that
2) I am a very busy individual (work + school + etc..)
3) I have a social life
4) I have my own hobbies to accomplish
Throughout the list above, it seems like I am only "making excuses" for moments to be with some other girl; however, I am 20 years old and no longer do I want to "flirt" with other girls. That was something people did in highschool as little games to find the right partner.
Why jump to conclussions only to regress back to highschool? Ask him about what he was doing the next time it happens and see if it makes sense- if it sounds fishy, chances are he is lieing - but that doesn't mean he was sleeping with someone, maybe he was at the bar and you don't approve of that - so he lies to keep the harmony.
Either way, keep looking for red-flags, if there is a pair of some girls panties in his car. The asshole needs to go and you need to move on; however, I don't feel like that is the case.