My girlfriends friends tell her she can do better than me
and that she can find someone better looking than me. And that she could get a better looking guy because she's so pretty. She says it bothers her, and makes her doubtful. Maybe they are right? They don't understand why she choose me. It's really hurtful when she told me what her so called friends said. :/
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They're right in theory. It's *possible* she could find someone better looking or more successful, which is not to say you're either ugly or a failure, or that it's a realistic option for her. But the real question is whether she values that or not and whether or not you make her as happy as possible.
Hopefully what she's becoming doubtful of is her friendship with these people. Tell her that the fact that she's listening to what they're saying is belittling and insulting to you. If she cares about you, she'll stand up to them when they say it again.1