What are the chances of someone changing their mind after they reject you? (Page 2)

[Ayobro]

Pretty high if you act like you're no longer interested.. A lot people want what they can't have and are turned off by people who express a high interest in them.

That being said.. It's probably not a good idea to get involved with someone of that nature. You'll end up getting hurt in the long run.

[Idontkeren]

Very slim... if they rejected you the first time, likely they honestly don't like you for you and you should accept that and move on.

[Veronica152]

Sometimes they will come around. But in all honesty, he/she rejected you..
why would you want someone who rejected you in the first place then decided to give you a shot? Move on :)
Find someone else! I'm sure you're worth way more than waiting around for someone.

[Streamhopper]

All depends on the person and the circumstances. I've had it happen. Did the confessional thing, got soundly rejected, ended up dating later. I'll admit, it was an exception, and I was lucky.

[Marttinez]

It's really hard to tell. I'm going through the same this right now, but at the end as much as it hurts it's better to be single and not with someone who doesn't know what they want.

[helpha]

Not going to happen. Be with someone who's crazy about you, not someone who rejects you then comes back.

[hypno-trip]

If they reject you and then easily change their mind they are not a decisive person...

[neofuture]

-10000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000% there is no chance of anyone changing their mind after a rejection, if they said no, they meant it for a reason, it's because they don't like you, it sounds cruel but it's true, moving on is the only way

[neofuture]

For a credibility check, I'm saying this because I've made this stupid mistake all through out high school, I've never had a girlfriend because I chased the same two girls for 4 years, they constantly rejected me, yet I wasted my time them. I was a pinball I got rejected by one and I asked the other one going back and forth constantly getting rejected by both. Then boom! 4 years wasted, an 18 year old with not even a kiss! Now I'm going to the most preppy school in the south where women high rocket high expectations, I'm essentially screwed because I have no dating experience. All I'm saying is moving after rejection. It's the only way to live a good sane life

[Asker]

I can understand that moving on is a good idea, but let's be real, you think that's never happened before where people have second thoughts about people?

[neofuture]

Ya rejected pepole get asked out by their lovers always in movies, but not real life, the chances of it happening are ridicoulsy slim, that's like saying "If I rob this bank, the huge may let me walk" the odds are stupidly small, moving on is the true only way for closure. No means no, it's simple as that, moving on is the true only healthy option

[Asker]

I'm thinking it's more case by case since everyone is different and thinks differently.

[neofuture]

Well Im sorry but your wrong, pepole say no because they do not like them, call me a pessimist but not only have I fallen for this trap, but multiple of my friends did the same and they are miserable. If you wanna have false hope, then go ahead, but the cruel truth is real life isn't an 80's teen movie, pepole do not like pepole. Again it's your life just remover not to waste it for nothing like me, all I'm saying

[JohnBhoy94]

Flip a coin.

I don't really know the story behind this question, so I'll need more info.

[Asker]

We have known each other for like 9 months and have hooked up before. He is physically attracted to me and everything. I used to text him often and he did not know how I felt the entire time, but I just told him and he said he did not feel the same way. I have stopped texting him completely so I'm waiting to see what happens.

[timmy111]

It happens, but dont wait around for it, go live your life, find better

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

I really think there is a 50/ 50 chance of anything coming out of it..

[ixi10]

Almost zero. They rejected that person for a reason. Most likely they won't change their minds

[AnnVdB]

Dont know but I would never want someone who has rejected me

[anothergirl23]

i think if you made an impression they'd see you in a new light and maybe give you another chance.

[RationalLioness]

No way to know because it depends on many factors. Yes, it's happened to me and I wasn't interested.

[Anonymous]

One guy did it to me. I gave him a second chance bc he said he wanted to be friends. He then said he wanted to go on a date with me. He stoode up and ignored me for the rest of the year.

[nirali792]

Times can change many decisions
You gotta be patient enough to see the results

[Xoxoxooo123]

Honestly it's never happened to me but I don't know how I'd feel if it did

[missjayne]

He said he is not interested. Enough said. Move on. Sorry.

[Anonymous]

Ironically, this is happening to me rn... I asked a girl out a while ago, she did not know me that well at the time. Now we are in a summer course together and she is flirting with me. Her friends are trying to push her towards me and she gave me her cell number. Being new to the whole "girl" thing, I'm very confused and pretty mindfucked. So, I guess I would say that it is possible. Just take it slow.