What makes a guy become a fuck boy or a bad boy?

[Londonscotland]

Someone please tell me how a guy can become a fuck boy or a bad boy.

[Bandit74]

That's what seems to work. Guys see these fuckboys and players being successful with lots of women and think "we clearly they're doing something right".

I've seen a lot of girls have this mentality "If i meet a hot exciting guy who isn't relationship material, Ill have sex with him right away since I dont care if he respects me or if it turns into anything more. But if I meet a guy who IS relationship material, Ill make him wait for sex so he doesn't see me as easy"

Guys are motivated by sex, so if girls reward the guys who aren't relationship material with easy sex, and make the guys who ARE relationship material wait for sex then the players/fuckboys have no motivation to change themselves. They are getting exactly what they want as is.

Ironically girls will still often develop feelings for the guys the fuckboys/players even if they didn't initially intend to. Often times when a girl agrees to be fuckbuddies with on of these guys, she ends up secretly wishing that he would call her his girlfriend. So in a way fuckboys get everything the relationship guy gets. They get the girls body, her time, and her heart. Only difference is they get those things quickly and with less effort.

So the guys who are conventionally more relationship material feel motivated to become fuckboys.

[Londonscotland]

So why players and fuck boys have girlfriends?

[Bandit74]

I don't get what you're asking

[Londonscotland]

Fuckboys only want sex so why have a girlfriend instead of just having friends with benefits

[Bandit74]

isn't that what most of them do?

[Londonscotland]

This guy I know he's a fuckboy and he has a girlfriend.

[Bandit74]

what makes him a fuckboy?

[Londonscotland]

He talks bad about girls
He cheats and lies
And he has to have a girlfriend but he picks the clingy ugly girls he also like girls who sweat him and he will kiss azz if he knows your authoritative.

[Bandit74]

is his girlfriend different from the girls he's normally hookup with or cheats on?

[Londonscotland]

I don't know but she seems blind to he's actions this guy is weird and has low self esteem so we know he goes for the easy and he dates ugly girls who sweat him he broke up with one recently and now he has a new girlfriend.

[Bandit74]

he could be parnoid about being cheated on and feels like ugly girls are less likely to stray

[Londonscotland]

I don't wanna get into details but everyone says he's a fuckboy and he does have some signs but like me I always think everyone is a saint.

[Bandit74]

so you have a crush on him?

[Sixxfan1313]

I suppose someone who gets around and only only uses girls for sex.

[dudeman]

Because it's bether that way since women make their own decisions now.

[Anonymous]

First of all, London is in England not Scotland.

Secondly, it's mainly women who encourage bad behavior, since they just won't go with nice guys.

[Londonscotland]

Lol I know that I just like the name London scotland.

[lacorine197]

From a bad experience with a horrible female.