i'll be 18 in 8 months and my girlfriend is 15. My parents won't let my girlfriend and I cuddle downstairs under a SECURITY CAMERA while watching a movie. This includes spooning, lap sitting, touching legs and others. The only accepted physical contact is holding hands.
So this led us to watching movies in my room with the door shut. You can imagine my parents horror when they walked in to find her with her head on my shoulder and one leg over me. Is this extreme? What do I tell my parents?
I'm an adult and I'm sure my parents would still freak out if I cuddled with a guy... it's a parent thing I think. But yeah it's kinda unreasonable especially if you're in a public area of the house like the living room
Some parents are very strict about that kind of stuff, and they probably don't want one thing leading to another and her ending up pregnant. If she will still be 15 by the time you are 18, that could be considered statutory rape.
My concern would be the legal ramifications. Age of consent laws can be pretty dramatic. I would do my best to separate the two of you until the both of you are over that age. The camera, though extreme, is probably smart as they can prove that nothing happened between the two of you, because if she claimed that anything did, you would be hard pressed to prove your innocence.
i dont think what your doing is wrong i think it is completely normal. i think your parents are like mine but are certainly more extreme. make sure u go far far far away for college. my recommendations are do what your parents ask but stay out of the house as much as possible.
theyre prolly worried cuz your dating a minor, so as you are too its fine. but i think their concerns are warranted but i think theyre over doing it.
trust me you can't talk to them about it. hmm lets see have you ever heard this before "its final" yeah dont try its final. just try to be as independent as you possibly can be so they feel more natural giving you space then abuse that space but dont get caught.
If you've been to first base and she's 15, they may fear you'll round second which may likely break a law. And don't rule out the possibility that they aren't monitoring the camera and not knowing what is going on between you two.