Both me and my crush were born and raised in America. Hell, he loves America. Has the flag, loves guns and all that stuff. But when I asked why he never asked me out on a date he told me, "I'm never going to date or marry an American woman." He told me that American women are just the worst wives and mothers and I was like, "What the fuck?" So I thought he was all butt hurt because no girl liked him in the past or something. But It turned out, he's had 5 girlfriends in the past and all of them cheated on him. So I thought, maybe he's just a bad boyfriend? But how can that be? his friends and family love him and so do I. He respects everyone and is always up for helping you at the drop of a hat. So what the hell is his problem? Why won't he date me just because I'm an American just like him?
Most Helpful Guy
He's been hurt a few times and he's associated that difficulty with American women. That may not be fair to you. the issue may be he is attracted to the wrong type of person and thus he isn't drawn to you because you aren't messed up like his sub conscious mind requires. Make sense... he needs some counseling... like 6-12 months. But how do you convince him to get counseling when he views it as the other women are the problem.
Why do you want him so much, he's hurt? it may say something about you as well.
That said, philippino women, I've seen several examples of, are simpler and good catches for wives. They just aren't as emotionally complex, spoiled rich, difficult. I've seen multiple men go there and find wives and be happy with them.
Most Helpful Girl
Who cares, he sounds like an idiot anyway. He's just bitter and you should find a guy who doesn't make a big deal about what country you are from.0