She doesn't mean anything by it but i am not comfortable with that, am i overreacting?
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No it's not okay... it's like another woman calling your husband her husband, not okay? Right?
I don't think you're overreacting, and if it's making you uncomfortable, then you certainly are entitled to react however you wish.
Clearly you boyfriend hasn't set boundaries with his female friends I presume?
Therefore you need to set some boundaries in place (it may be bitchy, but bitchy is necessary here)...
Next time this "friend" calls your boyfriend sweety or honey, just chime in and say "I thought he was my boyfriend, so MY sweety/honey" and then smile at her, don't say it too aggressively, say it in a calm nice way.
And if she still don't stop, then next time you just take her to the side and have a word her.
Though quite honestly, it should your boyfriend who should be dealing with it, and say to his friend himself that she needs cool off with the pet names.