I became friends with this girl this semester at school and I have started to like her a little bit. We had a class together and one day she gave me her number because we had to do a few projects together. As the semester went on we began to become closer, texting more and more. During our conversations she would always just stop responding to me, in what I thought was the middle of the conversation.
We were able to hang out a few times before school ended and she mentioned a few times how she wanted to see me over the summer. Since school has ended though I have texted her a few times but she has only responded once on her birthday. I know she is busy with her summer class and summer workouts, she plays a Division I sport at school, but I am starting to get the feeling she is trying to send me a message. I don't know what to do.
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Well, if I liked a guy more than a friend, I'd at least try to end the text conversation, esp. if we're texting late at night, like by saying "ok, going to bed now..."
Texting is weird, though...you can't always expect someone to reply right away. I usually text because I'm in the middle of something, doing other things and can't actually talk on the phone. So, sometimes I won't reply until hours later, maybe a day later.
And, texting can get old and boring...if it doesn't move to an actual phone conversation.
If she mentioned a few times (more than once) that she wanted to hang out over the summer and you believe she meant it, that's a good sign.
I would suggest making a phone call. If you have to leave a voicemail and *then* she doesn't call back, then you'll know for sure.