Tbh i think 15-16 legit is a good age to get in a relationship. GOOD ON YA GURL ;) like i really hope it goes well. I was 19 when i got my first REAL relationship... im not counting the ex's i had at high school only because i basically ONLY saw them during school and i didn't even do any physical contact with them.
:S So the boyfriend i have now is soo good, decent and nice and he respects me. And he was the first guy i did EVERYTHING with... Sex, cuddling, making out, kissing etc. I started soo late only because i was shy and anxious/stressed most of the time.. also wanted to find the right one. Gotta watch out because there are fuckboys out there.
MY ADVICE: to take things slow, dont be open so fast and dont just pounce urself on him, u need to be observant and patient on him aswell and pick up on things he does and notice the differences whether it be good or bad. Or if u believe in love.. u can just feel it deep down that 'yes' he is the one.. Thing is with younger guys or guys around the same age u are.. are a bit difficult to settle down with... so just be careful.
I totally know how you feel! My first relationship started at fifteen, I'm sixteen now. Basically you just have to be calm. Don't try so hard. When the kiss comes, let him take over and you'll very quickly get the hang of it. But enjoy it. There is not one time I don't want to experience my first kiss again. It was so amazing and you'll understand when kissing becomes a normal thing.
I wish you all the luck in the world!! Be careful, make good choices, respect your parents and I promise you will have the best and most wonderful time :)
Girl I have seriously the same situation. I just started to talk to a guy that is a few years older than me and I tend to feel I'm too inexperienced to engage in any kind of relationship with an older boy :/ but I think that you should just go for it if there aren't any doubts about him :))
Just jump in.
You aren't proposing or having a kid. Just go to the movies or maccies or whatever and hang out. Be brace.
Okay.
Step one: Breathe.
Step two: Relax.
Step three: Stop overthinking it.
Seriously. Your brain can be your worst enemy. If you think too much about it, or over analyze it, you'll get more and more nervous, and you're nervous enough as is, so why add to it?
Also, think about how he must be feeling. He's probably just as nervous as well, maybe even more so. (Trust me. Us guys may seem cool and collected on the outside, but at least half of us are hoping not to piss our pants. And, it's about now where my Y chromosome gets revoked. Again.)
Just try to relax and let things take it's natural course.
u You should resist the pressure to do anything that you do not want to do. Some people do not start dating until they are 18 or 19. Don't let anyone rush you.
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In a first relationship it might feel like you are pinning yourself against a dart board and giving him all the shots. but this is a very crucial and normal feeling for first time lovers. along as you are confrontational about your thoughts, things should turn out peachy
don't be afraid to say no! when in a relationship people feel like it's there last chance to find someone. if this doesn't work out, you'll find someone else. you're you cute
tell him honestly, this is my first relationship and im scared so dont be alarmed if im awkward at times or whatever it may be. im sure he'll appreciate your honesty. have fun, practice mutual loyalty, and you'll be fine 😊
Just enjoy it, the good and the bad.
dont be scared babe😊
Go with the flow!
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