I think the question speaks for itself...
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Because the guy that gives us butterflies is new, interesting and 'exotic' in a way. We are intrigued by the guy's ability to make us feel this way, we can't pinpoint what it is but we are attracted by the demeanor of the guy.
The 'always been there guy' can become boring and predictable and we'd like to venture into the unkown. Thus, the 'butterfly' guy.
That doesn't mean we don't need the 'been there for you' guy.
Actually, if the 'butterfly' guy turns out to be not so great (personality wise) we're likey to become less infatuated with 'butterfly' guy and more appreciative of 'been there for you guy'
ahh the twisted mind of a woman6
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