Should I tell my ex I cheated on him?

...twice.

I broke up with him a month ago. He has a new (more unattractive) girlfriend. I have a new fling.

Should I tell him?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • I'm certainly not going to say anything as harsh as a lot of the other comments, but my question would be, what do you hope to gain from telling him?

    It sounds to me like you're upset that he's found someone new. The reason I sense that is that you felt the need to say that she is less attractive than you. I'm going to guess that the reason you want to tell him is because you want to hurt him even more. If that's the case, then no, you shouldn't tell him. He's moved on and you should too. There's no reason to bring up things that have happened in the past that don't have any bearing in the present. It would be different if you were still with him, or wanted to get back together with him, but wanted honesty in your relationship with him. Since you don't have a relationship with him anymore, and the two of you aren't looking to get back together, this will just create unnecessary hurt and anger. Don't tell him because of spite.

    I can't really think of any other reason why you'd want to tell him, but feel free to comment if there is one and I'll share my two cents on it.

    But really, I think the best thing is to not tell him. It's in the past, leave it there.

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What Guys Said 4

  • Regardless of the harsh comments going on here you shouldn't tell him. If youve hurt him enough already you don't need to push it any further. Just let him go and let him be happy.

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  • You sound like you want to boast rather than seek closure.

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  • You just want to tell him the truth and stop the guilt feeling. And wanna make sure he doesn't have any feelings for you.

    It's a tough one, he deserves to know the truth, but the truth will hurt a lot...

    PS: I see you are still young and experiencing, be careful what you wish...

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  • You're a f***ing skank. So you're a cheating whore, probably hurt him when you broke up.. then to add icing on the cake, you'd tell him you cheated? You're a heartless slut.

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What Girls Said 4

  • Are you a total bitch? if you haven't told him already, don't now. There's no reason, unless of course you're jealous and angry that's he's with someone new, who you think is ugly? And even still, don't.

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  • tell him if you want drama.

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  • No because then you'd just be rubbing it in and making it look like you're telling him for revenge

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  • Stupid Bitch :\ slut.. you are a heartless skank.. you don't deserve anyone... and you sure as hell don't need to hurt your ex even more >:(

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