If a girl asks why should I choose you, how do I respond?

She has all kinds of guys wanting her also...


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  • The way she asked the question definitely wasn't the most sensitive, but I don't think this girl's intentions are necessarily bad. She sounds to me like she just wants to how much you really like her. She probably just needs reassurance before she takes the leap and decides who she really wants to be with (though if she were a bit less of an obnoxious girl she would just follow who SHE likes the most and not need to be like this about it). Challenge her by trying to find out how she really feels about you the same way she is doing. Ask, "why SHOULDN'T you choose me?"

    If she has a list of more than one reason, she's picky/too full of herself and if I were you I would ditch her because she'll just end up getting sick of you and hurting you/breaking your heart.

    If she says I don't know, tell her that you would make her happy but that you're not going to wait around for her for too long.

    If she says something along the lines of "there's no reason I shouldn't pick you", that's a good sign, so ask her why she doesn't already, then. and I'm sure you can take it from there !

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What Girls Said 12

  • I'd tell her she's an idiot for even asking that question.

    Relationships aren't about "What do you have to offer me?" or "Prove to me that I should be with you over these other guys." It isn't a reality show like The Bachelorette, where a bunch of guys need to fight it out, prove that they're the best, and win the affection of a single girl.

    She should choose you if she likes you and wants to be with you. That's all there is to it. If she expects you to give an answer like, "If you pick me over these other guys, I'll do x, y, and z." or "You should pick me because I have all these qualities that these other guys may or may not have", she isn't worth your time. She is not a prize that you need to win, no matter how much she thinks herself to be.

    A relationship is about two people mutually deciding to be together because they both like each other and want to be together.

    If I were you, I wouldn't waste my time with a girl like this.

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  • I honestly fee that if a person doesn't know how to answer this question, than they don't know who they are and what they want and in that case, probably shouldn't be in a relationship at all. If someone ever asked you that, what they would really be asking is "Who are you? What makes YOU different from someone else (in your mind)?" You should know the answer to this.

    Whatever the answer is, be truthful and honest, and most importantly, be yourself.

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  • Well if she has to ask that question in the first place, then I would run a mile. It's like she's playing blind date or something and getting you to persuade her first before she makes a decision, and if you don't impress she'll go for number 3. Seriously if she knew she wanted you, she wouldn't ask this.

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  • she sounds conceited. tell her she's not worth your time if she has the balls to be that way. it just shows the kind of person that she is and it's not a good one. don't fall into the "she's better than you" deal. no girl is worth it. you shouldn't have to prove anything to be with a person so go find a girl who will want to get to know you and not say you have to prove yourself worthy of her presence.

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  • that sounds a bit funny. if I were a guy I'd just say 'why would I choose you?' back and see her reaction.

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  • tell her something sensitive but true, like..."You don´t. But you should because I love you and I will always care for you; I will never let you down and I´ll treat you like you should be treated"

    not exactly like that, but seriously tell her something true and tell her in the eye.

    by the way you can use this line from "say anything..." "Don´t be a guy, there are plenty of guys out there be a man" like "Because I´m not just other dumb guy that won´t take you for real, I´m a man that will love you every minute"

    something like that.

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  • just say, "choose me if you like me more, I'm not gonna try to convince you. you should know by now and I'm not gonna choose for you. if you really can't choose between us neither of us are good for you so I'm just gonna go ahead and opt out of this competition"

    you shouldn't be with a girl who can't even choose between you and other guys...shes such a douchebag for telling you that anyways its so insulting to you.

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  • is this an episode of the Bachelorette? lol say why shouldn't you?

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  • turn away and walk.

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  • I know you girls all think she sounds like a B but let me tell ya I bet it's refreshing for a guy to at least know where he stands with a woman as opposed to her playing games with him. She's up front telling him hey lots of guys like me and I'm kind of attracted to all of you what would you bring to a relationship that'd I'd want to be with you over these other guys? I think that's a fair question to ask. :\

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    • I love this answer. It is a totally fair question.

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    • pull out your pecker and tell her to eat this:)

    • if she says or thinks "lots of guys like me" then that's a Bitch in itself and if your arrogant enough to say what makes you better than others then its only fair to say that you both have no good morals, this is a key reason why I'm attracted to plain janes

  • I would tell her that you're not interested in her anymore.

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  • well have you thought about why she should? I think it's a good question, especially if you want to make an impression on her now is the time. If you have strong feelings for her and you're a good guy and you want to make her happy you should tell her all the ways you want to make her happy and all the ways she's special to you. I'm not really sure what the situation is but that's a good place to start I think.

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    • What sets me apart is that you get me and all the ways I can make you happy. I love your photos your a really cute girl. Do you want to go out on a date?

    • sounds good )...*slaps anon on the butt* now go get'em ;P Good luck ;)

    • :)

What Guys Said 10

  • I would tell her that she knows who I am and what I am about and that is a question she needs to be asking herself because I am not going to brag on myself to compete with other dudes. If she likes some other guy better then he would probably be her better choice. I would be nice and be myself and let her know that I like her, but that is all. If she wants a voting scenario then tell her to go watch american idol or something. don't get caught up in it bro. cause if I know girls, she is gonna go with the one that doen's give a damn in the end either way, not the guy that tries to sell himself like a used car salesman.

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  • Personally, I'd respond with the following:

    "So you want me to campaign to prove to you why you should date me? You're f*ck'n ridiculous."

    Then I'd walk away.

    This girl DEFINITELY has the princess syndrome. I date women, not spoiled babies.

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  • well, you should tell her that your pecker in your pants is getting big and that you want her to put it in her mouth and swallow special juice. I think she will like that and say she wants to go out with you.

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  • Don't. That's demeaning and stupid. If she asked that, I guarantee that she's wrong for you. Just say "fine, don't" and walk away. Be the mature one here.

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  • Tell her to go and f*** herself!

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  • You should choose me because I am a really hard worker and I will do the best job, because I am a single child and I really need this, because I am honest, reliable and dependable, I get all my work done before others, because I'm the most qualified and have the most experience than the other candidates, and if you chose me it would be the right choice of your choosing.

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  • Say, "Because I am the only guy that will love and respect for and stick up for you when some jerk is being mean to you. I will be there for you, I will be by your side."

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  • "i don't know that's for you to decide". stay humble, its a cardinal sin to list your own good qualities

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  • "Because I am exactly the kind of guys your parents warned you about."

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  • Because your going to let her suck your d***.

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