He cancelled our date because he's too tired...?

He said if I really wanted he'd come hang out but he'd realllllyyy rather not.. I said it's fine (even though I felt hurt) and he said he'd rather hangout in the weekday...

He was the one who made the plans in the 1st place..and having been 2 days, he hasn't texted me since...he did say hi at work...

I feel confused and its really bothering me:(


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Well, it's difficult to tell what he really thinks, just try to leave him alone and not to contact with him. If he really puts his mind on you, he will come to you and ask you out. Seems that you are appeasing him,("I said it's fine even though I felt hurt") well, this is not a good thing for you to do. Just leave him alone and try not to text him if he doesn't wanna hang out with you, and in this way can you make him think about his faults.

    In addition, maybe you have to say more details about his attitude towards you. As for the affection, it's all in your hands, do whatever you think right. good luck.

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What Guys Said 2

  • Unless he is like a doctor on call and unexpectedly worked like a 30 hour shift ... wtf.

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  • Let it go.

    If he constantly flakes then he has issues

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What Girls Said 2

  • Nothing confusing about this. The guy just is not that in to you. In your age group, I cannot imagine what would make him so tired that he could not even have you come over to his place to hang out. Anyways, that isn't a date, that is just lame. So, move on. You deserve better than that. We all do.

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  • I feel confused too. For me, I will just give him space until he contacts me. Meet other people instead of waiting for him to hang out with you.

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