Guys and gals, are you a serial dater? Assuming you go on dates to screen for long-term relationship potential, why are you going on so many dates instead of picking out a partner? Do you actually enjoy meeting new people constantly, eating out, but not actually committing?
I suspect that some girls enjoy serially dating to get free meals/entertainment, while others are just too picky when it comes to standards and can't seem to find a guy that's "good enough". I think the other reason why girls serially date so much is that many men push for sex very early, meaning that the girls will blow him off and try to find a guy who is more patient.
As for guys, I find that many girls flake out, or fail to show interest after a first or second date, hence why I date new girls frequently. At times, it would appear that it is easier to get a girl in bed with you than find a potential long-term girlfriend!
So folks, agree or disagree? I'm eager to hear your thoughts on this serial dating phenomenon.
- I am a serial dater who's a girl.Vote A
- I am not a serial dater, who's a girl.Vote B
- I am a serial dater who's a guy.Vote C
- See results.Vote D
- I am not a serial dater, who's a guy.Vote E
Most Helpful Girl
I've never been a serial dater tbh. I'm not much for wanting guys to spend a lot on me but I'm just not into material things as much. I'd much rather go fishing or something easy without too much pressure than out to a nice place to eat, it seems like a waste of money to me unless its like a special occasion or something. But I recently got out of a really bad relationship with my one year old kid's father and it has been about a year since we split and 5 months since we stopped seeing each other at all; So I have been considering going on dates. I usually don't even make it to the date though, because most guys that come at me either come on too strong or get too attached really fast or something to that extent. There's a guy that I like that I'd like to go on a date with but we are usually in the same places when we go hang out and we have mutual friends so I've decided to just let it stay as friends that talk every time we run into each other and keep it off the internet or texting because a lot of guys are shady and girls can be shadier..
I got a bit off subject but I'll get to my point, if you come across a girl that is a serial dater and she doesn't have a legit reason, like the answerer before this those were legit reasons, then I would steer away from these types of girls.. A lot of girls truly are just interested in what they can get out of people and have no interest in settling down because they have plenty of guys interested and they are looking for someone who is "the best" which, in my opinion anyway, is the wrong way to go about your love life because in the long term view a friendship is what is really important if you want to progress from a relationship to something deeper..1