I'll text a guy usually in the late morning or afternoon sometimes and ask if he wants to hang out later that night. a lot of the times he won't reply not a yes or no or I don't know or anything until at night and ask if I still want to hang out. Why does he do this? Why does he wait all day to reply to me? Why can't he just give me a heads up if he is planning on it or not or doesn't want to or whatever? I know he's not a busy person and I know he gets my texts.
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Here are the possibilities as I see them.
A: He doesn't prioritize you, and therefor you're not important to him. He's holding out for whatever reason. A better offer. Better plans. Who knows, who cares?
B: He doesn't prioritize texts, which is a very strong possibility, and any real man should naturally feel this way.
C: He doesn't check his phone that often. He didn't see the texts until then.
D: He is waiting at last second, and is more interested in a booty call
E: Like WeaponZero said. He's not checking until he charges his phone.
Who knows what his reasons are. But if you don't get your quick response, then there are other options you can try. For example...
I think that if you really want to get a hold of him, pick up a goddamned phone and fucking TALK to him. You know what talking is? It's a thing people do with their mouths, and up until about five to ten years ago, that was people's primary means of communication. Either by phone or in person. This texting thing that's been sweeping people (especially girls) is NOT something that should replace talk, and there are fucking lot of good reasons for this.
Seriously if it's so important to you, try actually calling him up on the fucking phone, and talking to him, guess what, if he answers the phone, your answer will be instantaneous.
Call him. Because frankly? Fuck texts.2