Third date didn’t go that well, and now he’s not replying to me.
I went on a third date with a guy yesterday. It was at 10AM, and overslept because he hadn’t slept properly so we pushed the time to 10:30AM, but he ended up arriving around 20 minutes late.
I was understandably mad about this, but let it go. That’s until he made us leave early, which made me very annoyed because I felt like I woke up at 9AM just to see him for two hours and leave.
Although, he was apologetic about it, and has a good reason which is that he hadn’t properly slept in 48 hours. He reassured me that this doesn’t normally happen, and that he’ll make it up to me. I was still passive aggressive in the car, though. He kept asking what’s up and what I’m thinking of. He said ‘I know you’re mad, but I don’t know what to do about it.’ to which I replied ‘It’s fine, I understand. Nothing you can do.’
He texted me a couple of hours later to say that he’s sorry for what happened, and that he hopes I’m not mad at him. I said that no, I was just annoyed because I was looking forward to this and that I genuinely understand. After rethinking though, I felt like i was way too passive aggressive in the car so I double-texted him saying that I wanted to check up on him, and that I’m sorry for being passive aggressive as well.
So, it’s almost been a day. No reply, which is very unlike him. Not sure if it’s relevant, but he’s on vacation today. Do I take that as disinterest, or wait for his reply? I don’t know what to make of it because I’m genuinely interested in him and it felt like he is too.
I went on a third date with a guy yesterday. It was at 10AM, and overslept because he hadn’t slept properly so we pushed the time to 10:30AM, but he ended up arriving around 20 minutes late.
I was understandably mad about this, but let it go. That’s until he made us leave early, which made me very annoyed because I felt like I woke up at 9AM just to see him for two hours and leave.
Although, he was apologetic about it, and has a good reason which is that he hadn’t properly slept in 48 hours. He reassured me that this doesn’t normally happen, and that he’ll make it up to me. I was still passive aggressive in the car, though. He kept asking what’s up and what I’m thinking of. He said ‘I know you’re mad, but I don’t know what to do about it.’ to which I replied ‘It’s fine, I understand. Nothing you can do.’
He texted me a couple of hours later to say that he’s sorry for what happened, and that he hopes I’m not mad at him. I said that no, I was just annoyed because I was looking forward to this and that I genuinely understand. After rethinking though, I felt like i was way too passive aggressive in the car so I double-texted him saying that I wanted to check up on him, and that I’m sorry for being passive aggressive as well.
So, it’s almost been a day. No reply, which is very unlike him. Not sure if it’s relevant, but he’s on vacation today. Do I take that as disinterest, or wait for his reply? I don’t know what to make of it because I’m genuinely interested in him and it felt like he is too.
