me and my ex girlfriend talked over the phone and agreed to meet up at her house. at first she was all exited and was hinting that she wanted me back and possibly to hook up. after a while she started expressing her fears such as what will happen when I get there and whether it would be too much for me because she feels guilty for making me go so far for her even though its not too much. then the day before we are supposed to meet up, she says not to come.
should I come anyway or would it be better to not show up and wait for another day
btw she is leaving for a month and I mite not see her for a while.
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shes not done thinking yet, she probably doesn't know what she really wants.
sure, you could wait for her to make a decision
but here's a thought you might not have considered: you don't have to wait around for her to figure out what she really wants. You make the decision yourself. If you really like her and want to get back together with her, by all means go see her and express how you feel to her. Or if you realize you don't really have any interest in getting back together with her, don't waste your time waiting for her. (make sure you tell her though, don't just ignore her)
so basically, how do you feel? what do you want to do?
its in your hands too, not just hers
i apologize for girls being so confusing most of the time :P