Okay, so My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a full year now. She is the love of my life and I can be a very jealous boyfriend at times. I think I got this way from some things that have happened while we were dating. Okay to shed some light on the situation, my girl is a mega lightweight... we are talking 3 shots and she's heavy buzzed, 5 and she's drunk and 7 she is borderline ER stomach pump. We normally party at my house so I can take her up to go to bed when she's too far gone and I can take care of her when stuff gets scary. We went clubbing and everything was going fine, she's very independent and has been dancing all her life so she doesn't like to dance with me the whole time and she goes off and does her own thing. That is something I am totally fine with but what I am not fine with is when she is drunk at the club and the guys start giving her too much extra attention. Well this happened when she was somewhere between 5 and 6 shots deep so she was pretty drunk. Some guys were dancing really well and they started doing move for move stuff and after a while I looked over and she was gone... I looked around the club and saw the guys and her moving towards the door. I walked over and grabbed her hand and said"come dance with me!" she said that they were just moving to a different area on the floor to dance, as I was listening the guys made their way towards the door. My thoughts were they were trying to take her to some more "partying." this happened a while ago but I think it sparked my jealousy into over drive. Is this something I should talk to her about? If so, can you help me out with what to say?
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I agree with everyone else about talking to her about her drinking and knowing her drinking limits. I think it's really sweet and applaud you for being a protective boyfriend in that situation, because if she is really drunk someone needs to look after her. However, I don't think dancing with a guy/guys at a club is bad. I prefer bars to clubs anyway, but I have gone to a couple for birthdays and such. My husband doesn't mind, and I generally stick with my group of girls anyway. So if she sticks to one to 2 drinks, then I think it's fine.0