My boyfriend gives me as much attention as he can since we are in a long distance relationship but there are little things that p*ss me off so much! He will tell me he'll call me soon (meaning within 45 min) but ends up calling me hours later or calls me within 45 min. and tells me that he's busy now. so why did you make me wait so long bringing me hopes up that we are actually going to have a conversation? my mood is usually shot when he calls me back again... I'm not as excited as I was before to talk to him.
he will comment other girls' pictures on Facebook. I understand you have eyes but I find that very disrespectful especially since you have a girlfriend... don't go around making other girls feel special and flatter them. girls love hearing compliments...especially from boys and then they are led on.
when his roomate is in his dorm for the weekend, he practically has no time to talk to me but the weekends his roomate leaves, he will stay on the phone for hours and will never get off. and when I don't have time to talk to him, he'll make sad noises/faces yet I face it when he's busy with his roomate/friends.
but there are so many other reasons why I love him so I accept minors flaws (something everyone has including me) or at least confront him. I don't want to sound over protective by telling him not to comment other pictures of girls but I think that bothers me the most out of everything. especially if its an old crush of his who is a horrible person and treats every guy she has ever met terribly. why must he talk with her if he complains she is so horrible?
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Are we talking about men in general or just S/O's?. LoL. Because I could fill a book with things my hubby does that annoys me. Haha. Like taking his clothes off in the middle of the living room and not picking them up. Same with in the bathroom. Losing things all the time. Sitting on the comp for hours right when he gets home without even showing me any affection first. The list could go on and on. LoL
In general. I hate that men hold looks as the #1 reason for dating someone. While I do believe that looks will initially attract a mate. I do not think it should be the #1 factor in choosing between one person and another.
More then likely the guy will take the "hot " girl over the "cute" girl and the stick skinny girl with huge boobs over the average bodied girl. Even if the "latter" (in their opinion) is the one they are most likely to be happier with in the long run.
OR. When they will bone the hot girl first for a while and then expect the one they rejected before to come skipping back to them after they had their fun.
I also can stand the way guys can be very inconsiderate when it comes to people's feelings.
There's a few more I'm sure I will think of later. LoL
I'd have to say IMHO Other. What annoys the hell out of me with about guys is when they don't call when they say the will and leave you hanging. When they cancel plans at the very last minute and give you some lame excuse. When they talk about their ex girlfriends, like hello?! I don't want to hear about her, that's the past, are you not over her ass? How they can't talk about feelings like we can, seriously, all I want to know and be sure of is what you feel for me. How despite having a girlfriend or seeing someone they feel the need to hang out with their friends who happen to be girls. I don't care if you say it means nothing, in my head there's something more to it and you shouldn't be going to a movie or whatever with that friend. How they think only action flicks are good. How it's so hard for them to be romantic. How they act so idiotic when they are with their friends just to prove how cool they are or whatever. How they don't flush the toilet. Wow, they annoy me in so many ways I could go on forever lol Guys can be so awful.
When a guy says "we should do something this weekend" and you get so excited about it and when it is the weekend he doesn't call you and you try to call him and it turns out he can't do anything, that really annoys me, and that happens to me all the time cause the guy I'm talking to is really flaky.
Man there's so many things we do to annoy women its quite funny. Lets see there's always thinking about sex, beggin for sex, not listening to whatever crap she has to blab off that day, not cleaning up, dishes, clothes, bathroom stuff like that. They get annoyed when you don't like there friends, when you get drunk and don't pay attention to her, when you forget her b-day, anniversary, when we hang out with the guys too much, when we would rather see a cool movie instead of some lame chick flick, but I think the two things that really really annoy women the most are Not making a decision, and you getting mad when they go and hang out with there friends for a girls night out.
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I guess 11 months later is pretty late to answer this question, but I'm having a go at it any way :D..
I picked too much swearing, like using f***k, Bitch and loads of other offensive words in every other sentence. I used to like this guy when I was on the rowing team for my state,but he turned out to be a big swearer and that totally turned me off.. I don't Know what he was trying to prove by swearing while having a conversation with me...
you seem like a pretty sweet and thoughtful guy BTW.. :DI chose other because something I hate and have noticed in most of my exes is they can be so possessive. When I first hook up with a guy he acts cool with the fact that the majority of my friends are guys but the minute we start to get remotely serious it becomes a problem. Suddenly I'm being questioned about guys I always have and always will see as my family (there's three specific guys) it seems I constantly have to defend myself and reassure my bf that they are JUST FRIENDS!!
My #1 annoyance with guys is their inability to vocally share their feelings. I've heard it all my life that when it comes to a guy his actions speak louder than words, but it gets annoying trying to guess what those actions mean. Some directness can go a long way.
I hate.
1. When guys don't take me seriously / disregard stuff I say because they have huge ego problems
2. When guys think bringing up sex will automatically make me crazy for them (dirty jokes are only funny the first time)
3. Stalking - don't follow me around! It's suffocating!
4. When guys are overly-self-conscious around me. That just makes conversation really awkward.Whenever you go out
and his ex girlfriend comes up and he gives her huge bear hugs
and doesn't introduce me to her .
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When he treats his mom bad in front of me, .
When he doesn't express his feelings towards me through words .
When he's sarcastic all the time . Omg . LolI hate it when guys try and show off, or act obnoxious to get attention. Especially when their with their guy friends, or in front of girls. It's a sign of immaturity, insecurity and stupidity, and it's a major turn-off.
I don't like it that they don't reassure us more that they like us or care about us. And if they don't really care, I'd rather they break up with us instead of trying to drop hints, ignoring us, etc.
I don't care about scratching and I put the seat down before I use it. I'm ok with rude language when it's appropriate. If I love the guy those are not deal breakers.I put C because I hate rudeness in any form and I just htink its unnecessary
like if you stub your toe or watever and say "oh damn" I'm not gonna break up with you
just OVERuse of it bothers me
like oh what the f*ck you little ol betchs oh damn dig tht ass o sh!t my god you f*cker
its jsut too much
i also hate it when theyre afraid to tell us if they like us
jsut start being friends and tell us you like us in lyk a txt or sumthin if ur shy
even tho its kina hard not face to faceI Dislike when a guy says
1. " we going too hang out tomorrow" the next day comes and he changes his plan.
2. Show off when he is around his friends but acts different towards me.
3. Calls every second and when you don't pick up he keeps on calling and won't hang upWhen a guy doesn't show respect to the girl he is with when they go out. Flirting with other girls, ignoring the one they are with.
I definitely have to agree with See. I don't mind if we are alone and they like to curse or whatever but when we're in public or around parents it's just rude and disrespectful.
When your talking about your ex's all the time I mean come on every now then it okay but it gets pretty annoying after a while also when guys can't come out and talk about their feelings. I would actually like to hear it I know men rather show their feelings than talk but.
Looking off as you are talking. Or acting like he is not listening. (although he might be) I want EYE CONTACT come on its not that hard
How two months ago, he wasn't ready for a relationship with me. But now he has a girlfriend. That's a little annoying.
To me, it's guys being so f*ckin indecisive and hot//cold...THAT will piss me off most in a guy, and more than likely I'll stop talking to him because of it
Being selfish and materialistic. While this can go both ways for sure and it bothers me period I still can't stand it when men are like that either.
When they either smell really bad (like cigarettes or BO) or when they wear too much cologne.
OH and also when they're really really really shy. It's like. Just say something! I'm not about to judge you!
when they act all big and macho and they really look like an idiot
Most likely all three A B C can't stand when they do that seriously
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