First off, I was in a long term relationship with a guy who would never do anything to make me uncomfortable. Espeacially, in the early stage of dating. Our relationship did not work out and I am dating again. The first guy I start talking to suggested we go back to his apartment and watch "movies". This made me very uncomfortable. I did not know this man very well and I was not going to step foot into his apartment. I don't move that fast. I think he was trying to get laid and he had no intention of getting to know me as a person. Kind of hurts my feelings. Would you ever do this to a girl? Spend a week talking to her and then strongly suggest we go to your apartment after our date? Just curious about what other single guys think...
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Watching a movie at someone's place means having sex, no matter who says otherwise. Never go to someone's place if you're not gonna have sex. Some girls are comfortable with it, others are not. Girls have the right to be sexual just like guys.
If you don't want to though, just say no and the rest is gonna work out. If that's all he was after, he'll probably start chatting with another girl. If he is still into you, he'll stay with you. I've had sex with girls who did not want a relationship. They're perfectly fine people who would never view themselves as "something less" just because they had sex with a stranger.0