I've made out with more than 60 people but I never never never use tongue. The few times I have it has felt strange and unnatural. So, how do I tongue kiss? In the movies it looks so smooth and fun but in my memories it's all drool and swirly tongues
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How the hell are you making out without using tongue? And with 60 people? Dafuq?
When he tries to stick his tongue in your mouth, grant him access. Trace his lips with your tongue. Really "tracing" is probably the best thing for you to have in mind if you're new to the whole thing. Run your tongue along the underside of his. Suck on his lip a little bit. Hell, suck on his tongue. There's not a right way or a wrong way. It took me years to finally figure out that technique doesn't fucking matter when it comes to kissing or sex. Different people have different techniques. It might be awkward at first, but you figure each other out and set a rhythm that works for both of you. What matters is being into the moment. As soon as you stop thinking "well, I kinda wanna do XYZ but I don't know if he'll like that or not" and just start DOING it and ACTING like he loves it, things get a million times hotter.5