How the hell are you making out without using tongue? And with 60 people? Dafuq?
When he tries to stick his tongue in your mouth, grant him access. Trace his lips with your tongue. Really "tracing" is probably the best thing for you to have in mind if you're new to the whole thing. Run your tongue along the underside of his. Suck on his lip a little bit. Hell, suck on his tongue. There's not a right way or a wrong way. It took me years to finally figure out that technique doesn't fucking matter when it comes to kissing or sex. Different people have different techniques. It might be awkward at first, but you figure each other out and set a rhythm that works for both of you. What matters is being into the moment. As soon as you stop thinking "well, I kinda wanna do XYZ but I don't know if he'll like that or not" and just start DOING it and ACTING like he loves it, things get a million times hotter.
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XD I remember the first time I got kissed, just over 4 months ago. He gave me closed mouth kisses at first, and then he moved into tongue kisses. It was so weird for me! I just like sat there, I literally think I was frozen in place not even doing anything, just kind of letting him kiss me and wondering at how weird it felt, like nothing I'd ever felt before. A warm wet tongue in my mouth. . . I'm pretty sure he literally asked me how it was and I said it was weird. But by the end of the night I had figured it out hahaha just needed to experiment a bit with putting my own tongue out. Something to look back on and smile.
P. S. LOL "swirly tongues"
You've probably gotten with as many as I have, maybe less (personally stopped counting) but with the majority of mine were with tongue. I suggest you let the guy take the lead and mimic what he does.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tJsEHT5djlw
Check these guysand their other help videos. They're pretty good and i've used one or two more advanced techniques to shock. It's hard to practice with a non creative guy though/a bad kisser. So if you want to try something new, start doing things his way, then in a pause spice it up. He should mimic, that's when it become fun.
Its not uncommon to think it feels odd at first I mean it does feel like two eels wiggling around in your mouth. But it gets better with time and like any sport or activity you get better by practicing and the people in the movies are professionals so everything they do is smooth and perfect other wise they don't get payed.
If you've never used tongue when kissing then you haven't actually made out at all.
Tease the tongue just a little bit. Relax and it will come naturally. When I was first dating my girlfriend and I used to swap a piece of gum back and forth. It was kinda hot and helped us figure out what we liked.
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Start by normal kissing. Move your lips together in sync then play with their hair. Then slip your tongue into their mouth when the time is right. Play with their tongue almost as if you're sensually fighting for dominance and searching their mouth with your tongue. The best place to play with your tongue is on their tongue or the sides and lips. Bite their lips some (SOFTLY) while you are regular kissing to get the feel going.
It's hard to describe if you can't tell. 😂Is this question serious? I'm surprised by the number ALONE. How can you not know how to kiss after kissing 60 people. You're just fake kissing like they do in the movies then.
I've only ever kissed one guy so I don't think quantity helps. Maybe it feels strange and unnatural because you seem to be kissing every guy that walks by you.
I'm wondering the same thing... So when you find out let me know.
The first time I was kissed I believe he tried to tongue kiss me and it felt so odd I freaked pulled my head away, walked off, and acted as if nothing happened.
I haven't been able to kiss since!Here's advice from the best, LOL!!!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LCD4zMEsmMYPretty sure it's not making out if there is no tongue.
To be able to to French kiss properly you need to be comfortable with the person.
It's usually after a few normal kisses that I decide to use the tongue.If you don't use tongue, you're not making out. You have only kissed 60 people
Swirl your toungue around his and suck on it a little every now and then
You've kissed that many people. .. And your tongue never left your mouth
Mind blown. But to me it's natural. Just try itjust be gentle about it, augh this girl at a club i was dancing with stuck her like entire tongue in my mouth...
You just do it. Keep practicing with someone or your boyfriend until it feels right and natural.
Do whatever feels right but don't turn it into a mechanical exercise
French kiss is the most beautiful. lick of the language is beautiful.
You just flick the tip around. It's instinctual you don't have to think about it
Try to get in sync with the speed and movements your partner is doing.
Making out with no tongue? Whats the fun in that?
be submissive about it. follow his actions.
just feel it...
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