I caught my brother having sex. How do I get over it?

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I went to bed late and forgot my brother and his girlfriend were sleeping in my room. I saw him on her and not only that she was wearing my hello kitty headband! I mumbled sorry and went back on the couch. Iwas so traumatized, I forgot my blanket and pillow. I didn't see much and I didn't want too.
At breakfast he still gave me a hug and apologized. He also have me $20.00 (I don't know if it's to bribe me or he's genuinely sorry). I've been quiet the whole day and not making eye contact.
Why? Why in my bed? Why my hello kitty headband? Why my sheets? Why him and his girlfriend were naked?

Punkbuster107 · Accepted Answer

Give him back his $20 and tell him your bedroom is not a brothel for rent.

He had no right. You don't need to just get over it, he needs to get his act together. You deserve a sincere apology, and some measure of an explanation to assure you it was a one-time mistake. Trying to pay $20 and call things square is cowardly and insulting. Things aren't square.

He can't buy your forgiveness, he needs to genuinely work it out with you until you're comfortable going back to normal life.

Mesonfielde · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't be traumatized by the fact that he had sex, but I'd be ticked off by him using MY sheets and MY HEADBAND (... I don't have a headband, I think I'm missing something from my life).

Make him clean your sheets and give you new ones, and tell him not to do that in your bed again because that's just inconsiderate of him.

Eileithyia · Accepted Answer

You might want to tell your brother he is an idiot if he doesn't wear a condom though. Likewise, if she ends up getting pregnant, that is between you brother, his girlfriend, her family, and your mother. You don't have to concern yourself with his sex life.

findingdreamland · Accepted Answer

ahhh in your bed.*?  well he should not have done that do not forgive him for a while otherwise it will continue like that

Starfishlover · Accepted Answer

Oh man sorry that you had to go through that... Iwould burn all of my belongings and tell him to never use my shit again.

dudegrt09 · Answer

well he is quite a jerk for using your stuff and your room for having sex, if you want to you can tell your parents that is what I'll do, I loved it when my brother got into trouble :D

you_asked · Answer

When he isn't looking you should get his pillow and rub your ass and vagina all over it... that'll teach him

pezzonovante88 · Answer

That's weird. Why would he be in your room? $20 wtf?

TripleAce · Answer

Oh that's great lol Why do you wanna get over it, embrace it  No biggie

lonelywarrior40 · Answer

Hahahahaha I am sooo sorry but this is soooo funnny;maybe ur describe way hahahahaha :)))))) pooor girl... Forget it and go on ;)

james_mark · Answer

Sex can happen anywhere if both were excited and don't give a fuck  SO next time lock your room when you're out. that's it

OrangeBoy · Answer

Nah, ei just accept the beauty of sex. Nothing to be shame about. : ) Really, sex is life, life is everything!

fiodor99 · Answer

that was very inconsiderate. you should tell him how you felt

John109 · Answer

Haha, why you ran away, he did it there because he wanted you to join them or masturbrate over them.

cinderelli · Answer

buy a new headband and sheets and lock your room..

Strider90 · Answer

hahahaha this is so funny!!

VampireEmpress · Answer

in your bed? are you messing with everyone?

bubbletrouble · Answer

My grandpa learned by watching TV

DaddyRollingStone · Answer

Use the $20 to buy new sheets

PiuBelloAmante · Answer

Where was his room!

diarrhea · Answer

Go shit in his bed

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