Here's what you need to do: start listening to the Tom Leykis archives
Treating women good does not work, as you've seen. If women wanted to be treated good and like princesses, well, there would be a lot less single guys. You need to take your friends and hit the club, every weekend. Hit bars with your friends every weekend. Hit parties. Just go for as many numbers as you can and see where it takes you
A girlfriend is not the answer, I'm telling you. Not yet. You should just screw around with as many chicks as you can and settle down later after you've developed the skills necessary to get a worthy women
My point is, start working on yourself more first. Getting a girlfriend while in your state is the last thing you want, you NEED to experience a variety of women first! Just get out there and do it man
First of all think about what you're asking. You're making yourself out to be a victim. Don't do that. Next we have to break down what is going wrong. Is is that you're being too nice? Is it because they get bored because you're predictable. Maybe your lifestyle isn't accommodating to her needs or wants?
Definitely don't give up. LIke others pointed out, you're still young and you're a guy! If you were a girl, that would be a different situation. This might sound weird and I really hope you don't take it the wrong way, but you could always go back to Asia to find a girl. I'm Asian too and I know of a guy that goes to my church who's also in his late 20's who went back to Asia to find a girl friend. They had a long distance relationship and they both traveled back and forth for about 2 and a half years before getting married. The reason why he did that is mostly for cultural and language reasons. I mean, he speaks english fluently and as well as anyone else, but it's always more natural and easier to speak his first language.
maybe you were moving too fast. there was this guy I was dating b4 my freshman year of college. he was super sweet and nice but we were moving way too fast and he was talking about transferring to my college and wanted to buy be 300 dollar jewelry. We were only dating for a month. I broke up with him for no reason at all. I didn't know why at the time and felt so bad. when I look back I realized what the issue was.
you have to take it slow sometimes give much of yourself when necessary. some girls need all of that attention, some don't. it all boils down to timing.
do not give up. 28 is young for males to start sounding desperate of not having a girl. don't be too nice, it gives a vibe that you are weak and girls will just step all over you and you don't want that... go out and meet new people. :)
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Haha I'm an asain girl and I have had a couple or few boyfriends. All of my relationships did not last long but that's because I broke up with the guy because it didn't click anymore or something just didn't feel right. Sometimes the guy would be a jerk though haha. Maybe you're too nice and you do whatever she wants you to do. Sometimes you have to show your opinions and be dominant in a relationship. =] But don't go overboard lol
Giving up will only make you more depressed. Learn to never give up, and if you fall, learn to get back up.
google derek rake. it will help a lot if you subscribe to his newsetter. peace... and don't kill yourself, I haven't even kissed a girl and I'm 17.(seriously check it out though)
I'll be damned... welcome to the human race. You should never compromise anything to get whatever you want in life. Seriously, dude, dnt give up.
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