I would stop seeing him. Sure, this attention feels all great now, but how could you ever have a healthy long term relationship with a guy who continues to cheat and lie to his girlfriend. Do you honestly think he won't continue that pattern with you? Worse, this is going to negatively impact your reputation. Guys talk and observe and it is obvious this guy is getting the benefits of fun with you without offering a relationship in return. It makes you look easy. Oh, and all this stands regardless of his Girlfriend cheating on him. Really, if she was that awful, why is he still with her? Two wrongs do not make a right.
As far as his intentions, this is all about getting you towards a casual sexual relationship. If it wasn't, he would have broken it off with Girlfriend by now. And, yes, I don't mean he has to be some jerky player who is purposely scheming to get you into bed, but it starts with cuddling and continues to move on from there and you know that.
I realize all this probably sounds harsh, but been there, done that. This all feels amazing until the party is over, he continues on with his girlfriend and you are left crushed with a crummy reputation. At the least, I would not see him again until he is done with his girlfriend. At the best, I wouldn't see him at all. This is just plan shady.
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Honestly, it's not worth it. He may like you or have some type of attraction but if there is another girl, then you shouldn't really get involved. It really sucks being one of the factors to a break up and like I always say and hear : "if he leaves his girl for you...what makes you think he's not going to leave you for someone else he finds interesting." You getting more and more involved with him only makes things more complicated and your just going to get drawn deeper into this...fling. He's probably going to continue flirting and hanging out because he has this idea willing to kinda take things a step further even though you know he has a girlfriend. You should kinda stay on the friendship zone until he breaks up with his girlfriend for normal relationship issues like : (she wasn't happy. not compatible enough. it wasn't working out) ...not because he's having some other physical connections with someone else (in this case: you). If he doesn't...then he's not the one...and there are other fish in the sea.
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Your going to make it seem like its okay to be friend with benefits if you keep hooking up with him.Now you can still just be friends with him and hang out with his friends but that's it nothing more.It's been a year now that he's been with his girlfriend I don't think he's going to break up with her not matter how much hie likes you.Because they have a lot of history togeather and he would of done it a long time ago.
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