Girlfriend went on vacation and I have not heard from her in 3 days

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend, Tara, who I have been dating for 7+ months left to go on vacation with a few girlfriends earlier this week.

Since she left, I have not heard from her.

My texts have not been answered and my phone calls have not been returned.

I am starting to worry.

Since I have know her we have never gone more than a day of not talking to each other -- even when we first met. This is not the first time either of us have been on vacation since we met, either.

Maybe her phone broke...sh*t happens, but she could have called or texted me from a friends phone. Additionally, she is in a major metropolitan city and I know she has service (if her phone is not broken).

I don't have any of her friends numbers, so I am not sure what to do. I do have her moms number, but I don't know if it's appropriate to call her mom.

I feel like if you are dating someone and you are away on vacation and even if your phone breaks or you can't use your phone she should still make an effort to call or email me or something from a friends phone/computer. The least she can do is be like "hey, phone broke...i won't be able to talk to you much till I get back"

Things were going so well between the two of us and when I dropped her off at the airport, I missed her right away.

What should I do?

I am worried.

Updates

+1 y

by the way...she is NOT in a different country...we both live in the US and she is currently in a US city.

[emmabee11]

Please remember how much money it coasts to phone from another country and to get the extra package of being able to make calls to anywhere, from anywhere, so no... she couldn't of used a friends phone... and those pay phone cards are expensive... it coasts a lot of money to phone another country... i think you both need to stop spending so much time together and fimd your own space and do more things for yourself, go have fun... being in a relationship doesn't mean always including each other... you have a life too so go live it and stop feeling insecure, you need to think why you don't trust your girlfriend? has she ever done anything to make you not trust her?, it's a common theme these days of people allowing their insecurities to get the better of them.

[karmca]

first of all don't listen to what the guys have said. girls like to go on holiday with their friends for awhile. it helps her keep in touch with her friends. don't assume anything just because she won't reply to you. if you guys have a good relationship then nothing will happen. plus if her friends were real friends then they won't let her do anything that she regrets. I don't know how well you know her mum but it might be good to give her a call just in case something has happened although you probably would of heard if it had. but if your really worried just give her a call. how long has she gone away for though?

[Danialda]

Hello dear all! Please help as my mind is exploding!
I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 weeks and we have had such a wonderful relationship so far!
She had broken up with her ex-boyfriend only about 1 month and half before we met. We have loved each other so hard and never experienced such chemistry before in our lives !! This is what i have heard from her repeatedly and she heard the same from me. She had already booked a ticket to Dubail for 5 days for the new year and she told me she would cancel this trip if she hadn't paid such big load of money for it because she had to travel alone without me to Dubai. Before she left she said many times that she is terribly afraid of the day that I will be in her life and as we loved eachother I had told her that would not leave her and she didn't have to worry about it. She insisted on taking a 5-day space and asked me not to call and text her during her trip and I unwillingly agreed however had told her it would damage (continued)

[Danialda]

It would damage our relationship if we stop talking or texting. Thank God when she arrvied in Dubai she called and she said how much she loved me before she went to bed and still were so filled with love! She said that she admires my promise not calling her and I told her that you call me any time but as u wanted me not to call you I have to keep my prmose.
Next night she texted and we talked again before she slept and everything still went well but she vanished for days and got extremely nervous and called her when she was celebrating the arrival of 2018 with her friends in the club and she said that she would send me photos but she hasn't sent any yet.
I decided to call and she did not answer me just 5 hours ago and has not chekced the texts I have sent her to her telegram.
She is coming back today afternoon (Tuesday the last day of her trip). Guys, as I think she has tried to slowly break up with me!! Any suggestions? Do u think she will ever call back?
I'm devesated please help!!!

[Danialda]

Pls let me know if u need further other details. Please accept my apology for writing this too long thread but u can't imagine how it is consuming me from inside!
Many tnx in advance again

[Anjaa]

Is she in a different country? When I go on vacation abroad I turn my phone off as it cost a small fortune even to receive calls and texts... Don't worry, if you love her you should give her some trust and she will get in touch again when she gets back.

[Asker]

no...she is not. we both live in the US and she is currently in a US city.

[Anonymous]

the guy who has his d1ck in her mouth thinks it inappropriate for your texts to interrupt his bj. her friends and boyfriends don't give a feck about you dude... they're probably tempting her to go get phucked.

[dudeman]

dude you should break up with her, her going on trips with her girl friends is what single people do, just leave her, she's probably f***ing another guy right now

[Asker]

well half of the friends she went with have boyfriends...so I guess they are all unfaithful?

[dudeman]

nope, don't be so naive

[Asker]

huh?

[dudeman]

it doesn't matter if they have bfs, all that title means is person I'm f***ing now, nothing else really

[NoDoubt]

wow so you never hang out or go out with your friends?

[dudeman]

Eat a dick

[pelirojo_Amry]

1. the guys comments are stupid. that is nothing to assume without more information.

2. You should call her mom, just in case something may have happened.

3. she could email you, that's true, but if you don't have her friends' numbers, they probably don't have yours and if she doesn't have the number memorized, that might be why she hasn't contacted you that way.

4. do you know what hotel they were staying in? and whose name it might be under? if so, you can contact her that way.

[micamiri]

I go on trips with my girlfriends all the time and it has nothing to do with f***ing guys. We all usually share a room anyway... and it is just going away from everyday life and be girlie and having fun.

But if it makes you worried that she doesn't contact you when she is on vacation it sounds like you have some trust issues and that is something you have to work on if you want to have a good relationship with this girl.

[Anonymous]

hey I didn't talk to the girl I like when she was on vacation for two weeks. Its kind of hard to talk to the person your with when your away from home. Don;t worry about it she will call you or text you when she can