My boyfriend ditched me on my birthday to get high with his friends!

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend gets high all the time with the knowledge of my hating it more than anything! He ditched me the day before, of, and after my birthday to get high with his friends. Then decided to tell me the day after my birthday that he was leaving the next day for Toronto to go get high for 4 days all day everyday with 2 of his friends that don't like me. I couldn't and still can't stop crying while he's there. What if he cheats on me? Or does something worse? Or gets arrested?

[Anonymous]

Wow I know it hard to hear but you really don't need him I mean seriously he ditched you on your birthday to get higgh what is that ? You have no idea what he is going to be doing up there and that's the worst feeling ever. You don't need someone that's gonna treat yoouu like that.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like a dick to me. Honestly the cheating and getting arrested is irrelevant to the point that he's disrespecting you and making it clear that you are not a priority in the relationship. Do you really wanna be with a guy who treats you like that?

[Asker]

I don't want to be with a guy that does drugs period, I didn't find out he did drugs till like a month after we started dating. He used to smoke cigarettes too but he quit that for me. Its just so complicated like I love him when he's with me...cause when he's not with me he's kinda a jerk...when its just us its like nothing else in the world matters to either of us, its just us. I don't know what to do..

[Asker]

And the worse thing is that he promised that he would call me when he got there saturday night...didnt call cause he was too tired, promised to call sunday...couldnt because he couldn't find a rogers to pay his phone bill so I go and take all the money out of my savings account to pay it for him and does he call after that? NO!!! promised to call this morning no matter what...did he call? NO!!!!

[smokeandmirrors]

You can do so much better than this guy. He's putting weed and his friends above you, and on your birthday of all days. That's highly disrespectful and if I were you I would dump him immediately without a second thought.

[Anikaj]

I don't even have to read the rest, its real simple. He's not your boyfriend anymore

[BabyGal]

sorry but leave him