-No, it's not wrong to want them. You can desire anything you please, and no one can stop you. -You already realize that you're general social circle will be limited. Work, friends, romantic relationships etc., but why would you care to be around those that wouldn't accept you. -In my opinion, you're not really losing much, just opening yourself to a more close-knit community. -You want them? Get them lol
I mean I don't really like body mods (my opinion by no means important) but if you'd like one go for it. But just make sure the place you get it done at is credible and that you take good care of it after you get it done.
It's not wrong, but I think it looks creepy. My first ever crush was Orlando Bloom as Legolas, but doing that to the ears is just too far in my opinion. I will say, it looks halfway normal on the first girl with her cute little red hair :) The second picture is like... too obvious, trying too much. The third is like garden pixie man. Overall, I think it's trying to hard/lost to reality, BUT I wouldn't judge someone/not be nice to someone who did this.