She end up to be an easy catch. I was too drunk to go home on my own and she invited me to her house. She got a cab and paid herself. When we got to her house she made me food and we end up having sex (first time in my life it was so fast, on my first date - not even a date). I didn't even ask for it, she forced me.
She went on my facebook added me to her friends and changed her status to in relationship with me. When I woke up I got breakfast in my bed.
A couple of days later she called me on a date and paid for everything herself.
Seriously, I DON'T like it. I am a man, a hunter and this girl shocked me. Should I dump her? She is beautiful but it was so easy to get her. I didn't even try.
Okay, Ladies I didn't try to act like a sexist or an oldschool boy. Its just that I never expected to see a girl taking all flirting and dating in her hands. Usually, I am the one with plans for tonight or a week from now
First off, yes your a man. BUT women aren't deer so no, your not a hunter. :|
You need to stop thinking like that because if you actually said that out loud, people would laugh at you.
Secondly, why is it so bad that a woman should initiate everything? She clearly knows what she wants and went after it. If your too much of a 'manly man' to let a girl chase you, then you really need to work on that. Its 2010, not the 1950's, women actually hit on men these days. Please, don't die of shock.
But after all that, I do suggest you think about whether you could be in a relationship. This girl has 'Clingy psycho' written all over her. You knew her for a couple of hours and she already listed herself as in a relationship with you? But I mean if she's a nice girl, why not?
But, she seems like the hunter in the relationship, luring you with sex and yummy food right into her relationship trap. Bet you didn't see that one coming.
What's your secret? Not a joke, I want to know. I'm tired of hearing from other guys about how they just go out and get girls - if you're not super good looking or rich, what do you look for, what do you say?
If I could meet a beautiful girl and have sex with her on the first date I would be in heaven and I would not consider dumping her, quite the reverse.