How important a factor is a girl's body when dating her? Guys tell me I have a nice body but I honestly don't see it and I'm always trying to lose weight and trying to get the perfect flat abs body. I'm just worried that after they see me in a swim suit etc they won't be interested anymore. Is a imperfect body a deal breaker?
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Honestly, clothes can only hide so much. If guys think you have a nice body in clothes, then they'll appreciated it just as much, if not more, when your clothes are off. You don't need to have a perfectly toned body to be attractive. In fact, lots of guys prefer "softer" women because they're more "feminine." Everyone has their preferences, so as long as you're comfortable in your skin, someone will think your body's perfect just the way it is.
That being said, physical attraction is important in any relationship. But a lot of the time, physical attraction increases the more you get to know/like a person (personality, etc).
Don't stress. If guys are telling you that you have a nice body, you do. No guy is going to complain about being near a half-naked woman unless you've completely let yourself go and have zero sense of personal hygiene lol.
Good luck! Happy (almost) bikini season! (Depending on where you live). :)19