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Why is he trying to get my attention?

A guy has been flirting with me for a while, he is quite shy around me and nice and cold sometimes.Nothing has ever happened simply because each of... Show More

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  • from what I've read (in ur note) it seems like he likes you now and is trying to get ur attention because he sees something that he hasn't seen before. OR he's just playing games with you. I'm in a similar situation where a guy calls me and then he doesn't (just like that he plays games with me). when we're together or talking, he acts like none of the 'ignoring' ever happened and just continues to flirt.

    i say, it's your choice on whether you want this to continue or not. you can tell him how you feel about this situation, or even ask him 'why he's doing this'. if you hate this situation you're in and you want it to stop, then simply tell him and you'll feel better.

    good luck! :)

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  • Well oddly enuff I may be able to explain sum of this. If you are both in relationships or at least you are and he has basically figured out that he can't get you and gave up then ignoring you is not him sayin he hates you, he is p*ssed cause he can't be with you and it probly hurt to try and talk or even look at you during that time. I have had that feeling before sadly enough but now he is either trying again or is cool and is content with the way things are at the moment which is mad hard for anyone to do

    • I think you are right, then what should I do when I see him then? I want to leave it as it is, he seems still have interest, should I just ignore him?

    • I mean that might be a good route to make him come and talk to you because it might come down to that but if he is too shy he could just go with the flow and stop talking to you.

  • Why would you try to get someones attention?.. Answer that and you know why he is :)

  • It could mean that he likes you, but is just too shy/nervous/scared/whatever to actually go up to you and tell you he likes you. I'd say just go talk to him and see what's up and why he's being that way.

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