What are some signs a Guy has a crush on you if HE'S VERY SHY?

[4believer78]

I can't tell if this one guy does really have a crush on me or not interested. Could you tell me how I can tell the difference between them to.

[weegin]

In middle and high school I was a fairly shy guy, so I'm speaking from personal experience. (I've gotten a lot more confident since then)

It depends how shy he is. If he's extremely shy, he may avoid you altogether because it's too difficult to even try to interact with you. In middle school, a girl I had a crush on (I believe she had it figured out already at this point) approached me in the hall unexpectedly and started chatting with me. I could hardly even respond, I was so nervous and tongue tied that I tripped over almost every word I said. And, of course, not wanting to make a fool out of myself, I excused myself from her presence as soon as possible.

If he's a little less shy, and by that I mean he can interact with his crush but is too shy to ask her out or flirt, then it's a little less obvious. He may steal glances at you, but avoid eye contact. He may hover around you if you are in the same friend group, but be too nervous to initiate conversation. And he might even try to talk to you, but it probably will seem pretty awkward. He'll most likely seem nervous and very cautious whenever he's around you, try comparing how he acts when he talks with you, and when he talks to other people.

And if he's only a little shy, he may initiate conversations, hang out with you, be friends with you, all kinds of things, but just not have the confidence to tell you how he feels. In this case, just try making it a little more obvious how you feel about him. If you like him, make it easy for him to hang out with you, smile when you talk to him, or if you feel really brave brush up against him 'accidentally' when you walk with him or sit next to him. See how he reacts to this. If you don't like him, just try to avoid him a little more, keep things nonromantic between you, et cetera.

Does this help?

[4believer78]

Yes, but im afraid to brush up against him. Will a shy guy touch a girl he likes and how would he?

[weegin]

If a guy is shy he will probably try to avoid touching, if he does accidentally or if you touch him accidentally he'll probably get at least a little flustered and pull away. If he isn't interested he probably won't act like he cares very much.

[4believer78]

One time i sat really close by him he act really nervous and fidgety. I was touching arm against arm sitting down.

[weegin]

Well does he usually act fidgety?

[4believer78]

Yes, when im by him.

[weegin]

Well then he probably likes you, if he's shy-ish

[DoraLikesSugar]

Whenever you try and make conversation with him he'll start sweating heavily, blush, followed by an attempt to "fix" his tie. You'll begin to notice that he is swallowing excessively and looking down at the ground/away from you whilst trying to catch his breath. If you're standing close enough you may hear him whispering to himself "Don't choke, don't choke". For his finale he'll collapse onto the floor and break out into a full anxiety attack until the paramedics arrive to sedate him.
If you ever make an attempt to jokingly bring up the incident again in the future, it's likely he will become aggressive and ensure you that he has diabetes and it was caused by his low blood sugar levels.

Good luck with your crush anyway.

[4believer78]

Haha but he fixed his hair a lot.

[Anonymous]

He won't approach you but doesn't necessarily avoid your area. If you are brave enough to talk to him, he answer but prob ramble on in his answers nervously. He can talk easier with your friend than you. Watch to see how close he may or may not stand... Those are just some.

[X-MAN]

Note these signs in him ;)
1: Stalks You
2: When you suddenly looks at him, he would already looking at you :)
3: When you make a eye contact, after 3-4 seconds of contact he starts looking somewhere else
4: Does he having tensed looks on his face?
5: He would be always around you even without your knowing :)
If any point above, You notices in him this automatically means He's shy and having a crush on U ;)
*Peace*
if these points works, then don't forget to share your reviews here:)

[4believer78]

Ha how would he stalk me? haha lol

[weegin]

While this person does bring up some good points, I would not say that he is automatically crushing on you just because he matches one or two of these criteria... that's a very hasty assumption.

[X-MAN]

stalking can be done over social network and physically too

[TitsMagee]

A few signs i usually do (im a shy guy)
1: constantly glance
2: stare for about 2 or 3 seconds
3: quickly look down when the girl looks at me
4: avoid her sometimes
5: fidget around when she is around
6: stand in her direction trying to get her attention

[MoonMice]

When he gets even shyer around you than he already is around people in general.

[4believer78]

Example please

[MoonMice]

Example of what? He generally acts shy with people, yes? So, let's say he has a cush on you. My guess would be he acts even shyer with you than with everyone else.

[4believer78]

Thanks i guess

[MoonMice]

Well, I don't know him, nor you, so it's hard to give more advice than very borad general one. I can hardlygive specific examples without knowing anything about him. Sorry.