Rule 1. Never laugh in text. (i.e. lol, ha ha, etc) Smiley faces are acceptable in moderation.
Rule 2. When texting, make sure your message creates emotion. Saying "Whats up" is boring. Telling her that you saw something funny that reminded you of her creates curiosity. (Of course you should have a real answer to satisfy her curiosity) Get it?
Rule 3. It's OK to tease a little. Don't come off as being a complete jerk though. Creating a challenge and forcing her to earn you approval works 10 times better than being the "nice guy". Asking her to lunch is again, boring. Instead, tell her that she should come to lunch with you, as long as she doesn't embarrass you.
Rule 4. You are always busy, even when you are not. Always responding back immediately can send the wrong message like you are needy. Waiting a few minutes, hours, or days says your time is valuable and increases your status.
There are more rules, much more, but this will give you a good start. Good luck!
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Dude I txt my girlfriend for 10 hours like daily cause her work sucks! This is the only thing I'm good at! Which is Sad! Cause I hate txting it f***ing lame~!
Just ask her questions and build up from that! or play the question game!
one you one her
or build a story
kinda you write something then she does and see how long it will go on
Play the question game! I think that's the easiest way to talk so someone and you're also getting to know them. Ask them about their interests, their lives and their dreams for the future. I've been talking to this guy for over 3 years now and we're dating. When we run out of things to say, I always manage to find something new to ask him.
"how was your class today?"
"what are you doing tomorrow?"
"what are you up to?"
"want to hang out somewhere?"
or send some emoticon and she 'll be like hahah funny. idk
it could be anything.
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